A thing we really take for granted is...our moms.
That's probably the most we take for granted.
Let's be honest: Our mothers work super hard, and if they don't work as hard they still are very, very, special.
There are so many hadiths and even ayats about parents but mainly with mums.
They all have one thing in common: respect and love.
RESPECT and LOVE.
1. They gave birth to us.
(The pain a mother goes through...automatically she has a high status of "Jannah is under the feet of ur mother". That itself is basically yeah that just ends any arguments right there)
And lets say your mother goes a step further and takes care of you.2. Cooks and clean (that may be different in many households)
For households that the mother cooks that is a blessing.3. A mother's love to her baby(ies) are like undeniable.
Its so amazing how nowadays we lose total respect for your mom.
Okay fine don't love and kiss and hug and take care of your mom atleast respect her.I hate it when people complain about their mothers. I understand sometimes in all the different circumstances she may be considered (I can't believe I'm saying this) but "annoying" or "too fussy" she is your mother.
Aaaand mothers know best. She absolutely wants the best for you and whatever she yells or does is her seeing it as the best way to tell you.
I don't even need to bring up any hadiths or evidences from quran this topic right here has many many many many.
It just shows you how much you should care and love especially the mothers. The dear mothers of our societies.
Basically no matter what she tell you
to cook you cook
Clean? Then shush up and clean
Eat? Then eat
Don't go to this...certain certain place, then don't
And if you really want to do something or blah blah just convince your mom. Don't. You dare raise your voice louder than hers and don't insult either. Talk to your mother or convince her caringly and talking as she is authority. Even through in some kissing and batting eyes. (Okay just kidding she'll see right through it usually).
In fact the only objection you should ever give to your mom is if it goes against Islam.Im not talking about when you don't wear hijab cuz it "doesnt say so in the quran" or plucking eyebrows or whatever just listen to your mom you aren't gonna die.
Im talking about like yo mama wants like I dont know example like don't wear your scarf.
Wear it but convince your mom. Be nice her still, even when she is..well going against the teaching of the prophet.Muslim or non-muslim you gotta love your mom and be very very nice. Loving and Respecting.
Check mark those on your list and your good to go.May Allah bless and forgive of our mothers.
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SpiritualThis is my thoughts and feelings about the different sects, and also modern muslim topics that I want to address, based on facts, quran, hadiths, and knowledgeable scholars. NOT FIQH May Allah guide us all.