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Cheating

I know i mentioned this in another post but I felt this needed its own chapter because people seem to love doing it. Just because someone cheats on you it does not mean you should vandalize their property, blaicmail them or try to hurt them in any other way physically or mentally. That person is a jackass but at the end of the day no one owes you shit. This is a hard pill to swallow and it took me some time to learn it to but nobody owes you anything. If someone decides they dont want to be with you anymore for any reason they can. Whether you think its valid or not or if they dont give you a reason it doesnt matter. People are allowed to walk out of your life. And it hurts so bad and sometimes the person that does it may be an asshole but this does not mean cause harm to them its not fucking cute. It means move on and find someone who deserves to be in your life. I think its disgusting that when a guy cheats on a girl somehow everyone goes into attack mode and they believe he should be hurt in many ways including physically. This is immature and just makes you look stupid but it seems most people don't agree. Now I'm going off on a little bit of a tangent.

Cheating is not held up to the same level for guys and girls and that's fact. Guys that cheat are seen as far worse than girls that cheat. This isn't even my opinion anymore this is just true. If a guy wanted to throw a girls clothes out the window and bust up her makeup he would be crucified. But when a girl does it its celebrated. When a guy cheats there's always no reason why he should do it. He should have talked to her, he should have listened more. There's always stuff he could have done but cheat. When a girl does it there's an excuse. I thought he was cheating on me, he wasn't paying enough attention to me, i wanted out. somehow it gets flipped to be his fault. A cheating female is just as bad as a cheating male but for some reason society doesn't ses it that way.