Life lessons

Love yourself

That lesson of my life that changed me.
I suffered because i hated myself. That point of my life that broke me. When i cried late at nights because i hated what i see in mirror , a girl with big belly and those fatty thighs that used to expand when i sit , her thighs having cellulite. I tried really hard to loose weight t .For more than a year i had love hate relation with food. I was trying to look beautiful.

But now when i think about my past self. I laugh. I was so naive i was trying to look beautiful, to be accepted by this ugly society who have certain standards to live.
This year taught me that i am beautiful, i still have belly fat, those fatty thighs and cellulite but this year instead of hating myself I loved myself.
I accepted my self, the real me that i am and not the one that society wants me to be.
And i am so proud of myself for being this brave. I still sometimes don't like what i see in mirror but this time i don't cry and say bad words to myself instead i smile at myself in the mirror and says
I love you ❤️❤️ and sometimes wink 😉 at myself( it's ok to flirt with yourself, right?)
If we are always going to fit than we will never know that how much we can grow. Self love is important and self love does not means only to love what you see in mirror.
It is to accept yourself.
It is to know you deserve better.
It is to know you are worthy of respect.
It is to value yourself.
It is to know you are not difficult to love.
It is not to settle.
#love#yourself#❤️❤️
If you are not going to love yourself than who will.
This universe has made you with so much love, so much care. You are so delicate❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I have put a video above do watch it, it's really helped me.