Understand that all shall be well with Allah's will. Allah is inclined to forgive all sins for He is All-Understanding & All-forgiving . Even if you feel that you are already too deep to become the good muslim that you truly can be.
Discover where the influences causing you to turn your back on your religion comes from. Maybe you can track back the cause to either family situations or friends. They will not be there on the Day of Judgement when you have to face Allah on your own if it is because of family, it is little more difficult. This is where the next step will come in handy.
Repent and ask Allah (SWT) for forgiveness for any sins you commit . You need to let go of past mistakes and work on improving the future. Whatever has happened is done. It is in the past & there is nothing you can do to change it or better it . The only thing you can do is sincerely repent to Allah (SWT) and ask for forgiveness and leniency in punishment . Use those negative experiences as motivation to get better & do well.
Notice where your weakness are and avoid them. This is not to say that you should run every time a guy come near, but learn to lower the gaze & interact with unrelated men in a way that is formal & business-like.
Remember that Muslim women in the past also interacted with men in there society as business woman, teacher and scholars & they were all respected & admired ; they did not have to flaunt there beauty to gain this respect or to feel confident or even to contribute to their societies. Remember that Allah (SWT) is severe in punishment, but also the Most forgiving & the Most Merciful. They are not people that you need in your life anyway .
السلام و علیکم ورحمتہ اللہْ
Remember me in ur dua's
Allah's slave,
Till then
AllahHafiz..
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Be A GOOD MUSLIM
Espiritual"Be a Good Muslim" is a book dedicated to spreading knowledge about Islam and exploring a multitude of topics within the faith. The author's aim is to offer readers a comprehensive overview of various aspects of Islam while sharing their understandi...
