My Heart Speaks

Real, true beauty

Hello, my girls , hello dudes!!

What's up?

Ans: the sky

Me: hahahehe(≧▽≦)(●♡∀♡)

Now to business~~~~

What is beauty this days?

A figure eight, slim , curvy, pumped in the right places( if you know what mean *wink wink* , guys help me out here)
Smooth face, straight nose, plump pink rosy lips, long hair, pimple, acne free, long legs, wide hips, so on and so forth...
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Dude B:  I like girls with short hair, and white shining teeth, they should also have the smoothest milky skin....(drools in imagination)

Me: as I was saying earlier, beauty this days is very decisive People, have made beauty into a thing hat can be used as a weapon.

What is beauty to you?

What is beauty to me?

No!! I won't tell you that beauty comes from the heart, and attitude of a person, because this days no one cares, if she is pretty according to social standards that is all that matters. *Scrunches nose in disgust*

Yh right, I think that type of thinking is disgusting, so if that's how you think, get out of my book, and never return *mwah, hahahaha* (laughs evilly)

Now back to what I think beauty is,
I have noticed this days that snapchat, face app, photoshop, enhancer, magic face app, so on and so forth....all this apps are  great, but have you noticed that you always take pictures with them, or perhaps you prefer to show people your pictures from this app.

"We are starting to prefer our face with  filters on them to the point that we can hardly bear our own appearances" - Marci Robin.

Once the filter is removed we can't stand the pore opened, freckled, pimpled natural, real appearance that waits underneath.

Body shaming is now a social problem, because some people think it's alright to tell someone how bad they look, or one thing about them that is wrong.

People are taking surgeries to change one thing or the other, to improve and to feel more confident. I wondered  why people have to do that? But then Someone will say to me, "you don't know how it feels to be insulted and mocked"

"you aren't as ugly as I am" or perhaps, " you don't know how it feels"

"it's my body, I can do what I like".... Trust me I don't, because anyone who dared to insult me got a straight punch to their faces... (just kidding. 🤭)

I probably don't know how it feels, but I sure understand, maybe just a tiny weensy bit.

Once when I was in my first year of highschool, a boy told me that my mouth was smelling and I should shut up....
*My poor heart* in front of the entire class, that hurt like a bat on my bum!! I understand at least alittle bit, if that incident counts.

  I didn't understand reasons for people taking body surgeries ( liposuction, breast argumentation, nose reshaping, eyelid surgery, tummy tuck, and laser hair surgery).

So I researched it, and some reasons include, feeling confident, looking as good as I feel, look more attractive and appealing, more photogenic. There are so many reasons, and I am no judge to tell you that this is wrong, but the problem stems from reasons.

People have been bullied, insulted, and body shamed all because of how they look, up to the point where some committed suicide, some became obsessed with looking acceptable, they couldn't stand themselves anymore, they couldn't stand their looks.

All this results in low self esteem, lack of confidence, depression and so many more. When you find out your definition of what beauty truly is? Then you can call yourself beautiful or ugly. I am not going to say that no one is ugly, and everyone is beautiful in their own way, NO! I will not!

“Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.”
– Confucius

“Beauty is no quality in things themselves: It exists merely in the mind which contemplates them; and each mind perceives a different beauty.”

– David Hume
Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces.
Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.” – Ashley Smith

"No matter how plain a woman may be, if truth and honesty are written across her face, she will be beautiful.”
– Eleanor Roosevelt

“When you do something noble and beautiful and nobody noticed, do not be sad. For the sun every morning is a beautiful spectacle and yet most of the audience still sleeps.”
– John Lennon

“Did you hear about the rose that grew from a crack in the concrete? Proving nature’s laws wrong, it learned to walk without having feet. Funny, it seems to by keeping its dreams; it learned to breathe fresh air. Long live the rose that grew from concrete when no one else even cared.”
– Tupac Shakur

“She was beautiful, but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful, for the way she thought. She was beautiful, for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful, for her ability to make other people smile, even if she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”
– F. Scott Fitzgerald

Ashley Greene
"I feel most beautiful at night when I take my make-up off and it's just me."

Karl Lagerfeld
"I don't like standard beauty. There is no beauty without strangeness."

Kristen Stewart
"I think it's ridiculous that you have to look a certain way to be conventionally pretty"

Zoe Kravitz
"Beauty is when you can appreciate yourself. When you love yourself, that's when you're most beautiful."
Lauren Bacall

"I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that."
Salma Hayek

"People often say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realising you are the beholder.
- Tina Fey.

"If you retain nothing else, always remember the most important rule of beauty which is, who cares"

This quotes are from alot of people from different places, different ideas, different  definitions and different thinking.

And if you notice one thing, they are all different, that is why no one said exactly the same thing, the only reason someone thinks you are ugly is because you are different and you don't look like them.

I once saw a man and his wife, and to me the man was a tad bit handsome, while his wife just looked wierd (not the word, different)  compared to him, asking him what he thinks of his wife, he said " she is the most beautiful person  i have  ever seen. Sometimes it Intimidates me. But I thank God everyday, that she agreed to marry me" if you ask me that was just wierd, I was taken aback. If you happen to think you are not pretty or someone looks better than you, it simply means you haven't found Someone who appreciates you, just the way you are, personally I like to tell everyone that I am the most beautiful person I have ever seen, seems proud but I like to call it love for myself, cause I am madly in love with myself. You should  fall in love with yourself too!

And learn to always be beautiful!

Because girl, and dudes!
If you can dare to love urself,despite what everyone says, despite the big pimple on our face, despite your long pinocchio nose,  you are beautiful!!

Believer that!(◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

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