BLUE PROSES

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO GOOD AT CRITICIZING?

                                                  Why Are People So Good At Criticizing?

I couldn't agree more. People are perfectionists slash insecure without actually realizing and foreseeing what would they sound like after their judgement. I remember someone back on my school days, let's say a stranger, she sat beside me and she told me, "I really like to seat beside you *and she calls my name, thinking what it is first*. I look brighter," ( well she said it in a vernacular but whatever ), and then she smiled and look at everyone else. We're around our fellows that moment. She was beautiful, I agree to that. She has this fair, smooth skin complexion all over that most people would dream of. She was also logical, ethical in a sense, and I could tell she was way smarter than me. But what turns me off really, is her critic side. Every body hates mean girls. ( well unless you're one and hate your own kind ). I felt really really off and embarrassed on that white chair I'm sitting on yet I managed to kept my cool, professional side going on. I realized one of the greatest ways to combat people like them is not to react. I smiled at her and laugh in my interest volume. She might have felt superior in terms of our color race but I am victorious in terms of maturity. You know, people are so good doing comments and reacting to things that isn't really relevant and beneficial to them. You'd encounter people who will tell you your eyelashes doesn't match the shape of your eyes, your hair is messy with a certain haircut, some people would tell that your perfume stinks or your belly fat is too much to handle. Some would say your height is just enough to reach the fourth level of a bookshelf. Some would say your accent sounds like weird falsetto or you sound like a hummingbird. And people has no boundaries. They will criticize all of you, your talent. They would say your penmanship is more than a doctoral degree. They will tell your essays are full of flaws and errors. They would say your dancing is bad, that you're doing the wrong steps and postures and you move less energetically. They would say you're just bragging on your Instagram posts or mydays or twitter fleets. They would say your sketches and drawings are messy and not even accurate. That your type fashion is whore-ly, soul selling outfit, that you're a bitch by the way you wear your stuff. That when they see you with someone eating, or you go home beyond curfew, that makes you non-single and whatever unrealistic impression you might've heard before.That your singing is way out of tune, that your job is not paying enough to be successful and so many more. People will attack you in every options they have. People will tell you you're not good enough even if you were mostly better than them. Like great works and magnum opuses, deep feelings always mean more than they are conscious of saying. A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.Don't mind them. There are millions of them and just one of you, will you let a million bricks and old pebbles block the way a diamond should shine? Heliocentrically speaking, you are the sun of this universe. And all these massive galactic entities, they don't give life you to. You give life to them. And you can choose not to. So just give your sunrays to the ones who deserves to see your light. No one can outshine a sun like you.