Weird is beautiful

Be you👽

Lets start by saying....it's a big big world, and everyone's place in it differ from trait's such as; personality, choices, likes/dislikes, fear's, hobbies and so many more. Have you tried discovering who you are and how your personality affects the way you relate with others ? However if the Question is no then you might really want to start now.

If you've read the book why we act the way we do by Tim lahaye, you must have already come to the realization that humans have...temperaments (four) which influence behaviors. If you haven't I'd recommend it as a must read, according to Tim lahaye we've got four temperaments which are; 1•Melancholy 2• phlegmatic 3•Sanguine & lastly 4• choleric... knowing this you should know each temperament fall under strengths/weaknesses.

One key thing you should have in mind is that self-love & self appreciation comes from truly accepting one's nature...you were built differently, although it isn't a bad idea to want to be like someone or have a role-model that inspires you, rather practice the good traits you see in them and work on perfecting it based on how comfortable it goes with your personality.
Let me share a life experience with you.... When I was in high school I usually get bullied probably because it was my size but then whatever it may have been, I never liked the fact I was treated that way, but I found a way to breakthrough.....
I won't really say I was one of the top in my class but individually I knew my goals and had set paths to reach out to them, my classmates usually thought of me as a nerd or awkward and the popular guys would always mock me because of my choices and ways I decided to go about my life, I won't lie there were times it got to my nerves unfortunately tho knowing myself pretty well I had figured I wasn't built for combat but then I couldn't keep up with the mockery so I tried some approaches.

I tried avoiding everyone which led to a very uptight anti-social attitude, I was just so insecure about people to be honest it got to a point that the only person I wanted to be around was myself (I acknowledge i took it quite far but then if you were in my situation what would you have done differently?)
I officially became a weirdo, and that was the least I needed to be at that time...so let's just say things didn't turn out as I had expected rathe it got worst, for starters the mockery only increased plus I now had a new nickname "TEACHERS PET" ohhh!! How I hated being called that but best believe i couldn't stop it...although I had another way I could try.
Long story cut short i stopped trying to impress others rather my new focus was keeping myself satisfied with what I do!, why did I share this with you? Simple! The point here is that everyone is fighting their own demons and everyone is different just as we don't have the same thumbprints...what I'm saying is WAKE UP!!! You are who you are begin to make yourself understand this, the earliest the sooner the results.