The Fangirl Tales

Chapter 16: That One Quality!

The girl walks along the path of the beach. She experiences the beauty of the sea, the waves and the cool breeze. Now she reaches a beach resort and enters the room, she gets freshen up and receives her evening cup of chai. The girl now enters the balcony and sits in a comfortable chair. She opens her diary, turns the next page and put the title as Chapter 16: That One Quality!
She continues to write...✍️💯

Dear Diary,

To start with I was someone who has always been very grumpy, talkative (in an intellectual or bookish sense), an introvert, a very impatient and an extremely ill-tempered person in nature. But I just said "I Was" !! 😅😬
As I clearly mentioned in the previous chapter, when I watched every other interviews of dhiru, I slowly started to notice him as a person more. Rather than seeing him as Vetri, I slowly started to see him as Dhiraviam. To be very honest firstly I was shocked and surprised because atleast I haven't seen someone like him, both as an actor and as a human being till then. 💯
This quiet kiddo who is full of kindness, integrity, wisdom and a very pure heart is surely a gift for the society. Knowing such a person like him, I consider it as a blessing in life. 😇💝

Thalaivar ah ennaku vetri mulyamaa dhaan theriyum but as far as I observed, he is 50% - 60% Vetri in real life too. Thalaivar oda qualities pathi pesanum na apdiye pesite polaam, avolo iruku pesa...💯

So, let's dive into a fangirl's whirlpool of thoughts about her "HIM" !! 😍💕

Firstly, I love the fact that he is an introvert!! 😬
Konjo silly ah dhaan irukum na oru flow la sollum bothu but being an introvert myself, I felt so comfortable to see someone like me who is the quiet one in the crowd, who becomes very conscious during public gathering or while speaking with others and who gets hurt very soon for even the slightest of things. But seeing him slowly shine in the entertainment media and adapting to the environment without sacrificing his real nature was highly commendable and I salute him for this quality !!! 😇🙏
Before I used to feel that being an introvert is my worst weakness ever but I understood from him that there is nothing wrong to be an introvert. But we should not make it as our weakness rather we have to slowly start exploring new things and try to socialize with people. Who knows we can end up with some great people who could become our best companions forever. I too got few good souls and so does him as well !! 😁❣️

Secondly, I love the fact that he is a pure gentleman. Now you can ask me a question that, "How can I vouch on him in this regard because I haven't met him ever" ?!
Yes!! I never met him in person so far but we women are basically pro at identifying a man at the first glance. My mum used to tell me that, on an average a women can find out about a man by merely observing him for 15 minutes max.
Similarly, after getting a good amount of knowledge from the people, media and fandom, I can blindly vouch that my thalaivar is a gentleman for sure !! (Proud me!!) 🥰
The way he treats his female co-stars, his fans and his family is all enough for me to vouch!! 🤞🌟 Every time someone complements about him being the gentleman, my eyes are filled with pride and happiness 💓 Men like these are rarest in the current era !! 🤞🙏

Next thing that I admire about him or the quality which I learnt from him was to always be kind and compassionate to every living being and to respect the feelings of others. Sometimes we can hurt people intentionally or unintentionally but understanding others point of view and staying calm is not everyone's cup of tea but thalaivar knows it the best !! The way he cares for everyone around him is so adorable and beautiful to witness. 🥰✨

Also, another quality is the way he respects his fans !! 🥰🙏
I never know an actor till date who likes or replies to almost all the messages or fan edits of his fans. Thalaivar does that !! He used to do it at the beginning of his career, which is highly understandable but even today after reaching great heights, still the way he respects his fans and well wishers through whatever little gestures is so heartwarming and I feel so blessed to have received so many sweet surprises by him as a fangirl like insta edit or story like, reshare, dm view, comments and a personalized message through another established fangirl etc...🥺🥰🤞Also he is someone who even sends personalized video messages to his fans sometimes, incase if someone requests him to do so. Also he never forgets to appreciate his fans hardwork in making content for him by spending their precious time. 🥰💯
The one fact that I have heard and felt mesmerized but still haven't experienced yet is how it would feel to meet him in person because I've heard people describe their meeting with him or co-stars praising him for the way he treats his each and every fan who comes to meet him in person to the shooting spots. 🥰❣️

Another interesting quality that I imbibed from him is to be humble and down to earth irrespective of our achievements in our professional and personal life. He is such a gem and I admire him for who he is as a person. 🥺🤞

Thalaivar is a very sensible and caring person and we all know that. I've watched all his interviews and I've seen him answer all the questions with so much sensibility and calmness. I mean how can he be like that??!! 😁🤞

The top most quality that I learnt from him is to not lose control over ourselves in any difficult situations in life. Anger management is very integral and I learnt it from him. Every time I get anger in real time I used to immediately think that if thalaivar was here then what would have he done in this situation and I kinda try to do the same. That's how he has created an impact on me as a human being. 💖🥺🤞

I remember this incident when Vijay tv posted a short yes or no rapid fire video on Instagram featuring Dhiru and Swathi as JP. I was watching the video and it was very fun, suddenly there was a question displayed on the screen which read, "Unga pair ah sight adichirukeengala"?? To which Swathi showed the board as NO but to my shock dhiru showed both YES and NO alternatively as if he is confused between what to show. Meanwhile I was so shocked and was polambifying to my mirror rae the following evening 😭😭

Le me: No chance, thalaivar can't do this!!! There is something wrong with this video !!! 🧐😤

But after few hours when I checked his insta story I was relieved when I saw what was written !! 😅🙃 A normal person would have surely made it an issue because the act done by the channel or whoever created the video for likes though intentionally or unintentionally was very brutal and it would've created a controversy about the actor which can even hinder his goodwill in the industry and mainly among his fans. But still the way dhiru bro reacted camly to it by reposting the video with a stern yet cool insta story that "the question you asked to me during the interview is not the question you've posted in the video" !! I was left so so impressed by this man. How can someone be so calm and cool even in situations like these. If I would've been there then tho, they are gone only!! 😂😂

Le me to him: Ungalukku kovame varaadha ga?? 😂🥺

Finally, I would like to talk about that one quality which I learnt from him or admired so much about him and I'm consciously practising it in my real life for a good amount of time since I became his ardent fan...🤞

It's his "PATIENCE" !! 🤩

My gawwddd ! How can someone be with so much patience even during the worst of catastrophes in life. I never really witnessed this phase of him during ER1 times but have heard his co actors and others talk about this particular quality of him being someone with utmost patience. But I really appreciated his this quality when I saw him in ER2 !! The amount of patience that he is having is unimaginable and I salute him for being an epitome of patience.
We all know how he is struggling now in this current phase of being in ER2 as Jeeva !! My heart wails for that poor soul jeeva and dhiru that I couldn't tolerate those scenes where they portrayed jeeva so low and damaged his character to the core. I can't control my emotions when someone I'll treats, degrades or insults dhiru bro or the character that he is playing. I mean though we can understand the difference between on screen and off screen but the way star maa and ER2 team treated him was so painful to me that I quitted watching ER2 in itself....Though I loved JP, I couldn't stand someone treating thalaivar like this both onscreen and offscreen. 🥺😭😭😭

But HIM being him always, handled everything with so much patience and perseverance. 🥺🤞I still feel so proud for his sensible and mature decisions during his tough phase of life and that's exactly what I love about him. ❣️💯

To conclude, there is so much more to talk about him and his traits but my words will fall short to describe such a person. So, here I'm just feeling so so proud that I am his fangirl and also feeling grateful to have got to witness him both as an actor and a human being. 😇🤞🙏

Yours
DD 🤓✍️

As the girl puts the next title as Chapter 17....

(To be continued...)