Her Sentiments

To be loved

Whenever I am at the peak of the burning sensation of the pain that strikes the qalb, my mind gets clouded by myriad questions of why's and how's. I couldn't reach my rational mind to think positively of the situation. My breathe hitches with the rage of bleeding, and I suffocate with the over thinking of how tomorrow would be like after plans were defied by qadar.

I remember when a sheikh remarked, "If you wanna love someone, put an end to your pursuit of trying to get attention from everyone." It hits a spot in the heart, right?
It's a summary of what one should do even if he or she wishes to make someone stay.
This reminded me when I read this line from a man, "That's why I can't settle with anyone because I couldn't find someone to accept me." My heart sank at the thought of this.
In regards to keeping people, our inability to change what we have gotten used to while making our way to dominate and force them to accept our flaws can severe what we want to grow. There is no such thing as making people accept us while we are not showing a sign of turning over a new leaf.

In reality, you can never find someone to settle with if you don't end your pursuit of gaining love from everyone. If you're someone who loves to joke around different women, exercising a trial and error between hearts, how can you expect to keep one while leaving bad remarks for yourself?
An idiocy it is. What do you take people for?

One of the strongest foundations in making someone stay is having certainty in the person. Believe me, if you want someone to accept you for who you are, show the person that you are certain and determined to win him or her. You can never make a heart stay if its love and care is always frustrated. If you don't make love feel at home, it tends to look for it into other eyes.

And I hope you are not loved just because you are the convenient and the easiest to access from other hearts. I hope you not loved just because it is known that you love real. I hope you are not loved just because you suit the situation. I hope you are loved not because you are needed. Hope you are needed because you are loved.