𝙉𝘼𝙍𝙐𝙃𝙄𝙉𝘼 𝙄𝙉 𝙋𝙊𝙎𝙎𝙀𝙎𝙎𝙄𝙊𝙉

SPECIAL AUTHOR'S NOTE

Hello Everyone,

1st of all... Thank You for sticking w/me until the very end. Ik I started off very strong and just dragged it. 🫤 SORRY!!!

I'm going to add some things that I believe will be helpful to some ppl.
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PLS USE A VPN. There's free ones and others w/good deals!!
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NEVER make a post while you're at your current location, do it AFTER you're gone. Anybody can really find your location w/1 recognizable detail, be it a car, restaurant, apt complexes, anything!! Ppl really be doxxing and stalking. (That's why I'm not as active on social apps)
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Crisis Hotlines are available to anyone that needs it, pls use it if you're feeling suicidal. 🫶🏾 Sending You Hugs and Prayers
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I know that I love writing/reading about dark themes (abuse, stalking, obsession, etc) but if you or anyone you know is experiencing this irl then you need to RUN the other way.

Women (Especially Black Women) lose their life from an abusive partner or an ex partner.

There's also a rise of mothers being killed by their sons... 🙁

Red Flags 🚩:
Jealousy
(can't wear certain things, doesn't want you to interact w/any other males/person besides them, bringing up your past relations, etc)

Controlling
(can't stay out past a certain time, telling you what/how to eat, keeping your hair in a certain way, trying to bribe/groom you to see things their way, etc)

Paranoid
(accusing you of certain things b/c of their guilty conscience, constant text msgs/phone calls, always wanting your location, etc)

Raising Their Voice
(screaming, yelling, speaking aggressively, etc)

Breaking/Slamming Things
(phone, doors, walls, knocking things down, flipping furniture over, etc)

Unexpectedly Showing Up To Places
(jobs, family functions, homes, stores, etc)

Isolation
(keeping you away from friends/family, forcing you to spend every single minute of your time w/them, may tell you lies about ppl in your life: "they're jealous", "they're not good for you", etc)

Getting Too Rough
(pulling/pushing you, snatching you, grasping you too tight, etc)

Hurting Your Feelings
(verbally abusing you: "you're fat", "that dress makes you look ugly", "why are you dressing up? We're just going to xyz", etc.. comparing you to others: "my ex always did xyz for me", "makeup is only for models", "I usually don't date women like you", etc.. make your most important things about them: your graduation, your promotion, your grades, etc)

Prevent You From Leaving
(hide your keys, make you late for work, hide your phone, keeps you locked inside your room, etc)
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If you have a bf/significant other/husband/crush, etc... and they're groping you without your permission, then that's sexual assault.

If you're not in the mood and you tell them NO and they keep going, that's sexual assault and NO it's not different if they keep going further and eventually you cave in, that's still sexual assault.

If you've been (touched/r*ped) and you froze up. Don't blame yourself!! If your body reacts, do NOT blame yourself!! No that didn't mean that you wanted it/liked it.

🫶🏾 Sending You Hugs and Prayers
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EXTRA: Watches redpill content, Has negative reactions towards women, Groups all women together, Think women are beneath them, etc... and YES attractive men CAN be incels too lol, they're not all living in their mama's basement 🤣 Took me a longgg time to figure that out

PS: If he's always telling you that all of his exes are crazy, don't believe him! All them bitches can't be acting like that for nun 🙄

If he's a deadbeat to his other kids, he'll be a deadbeat to yours! If he's saying he doesn't like using condoms/refuse to get tested, then don't fucking speak to him, just BLOCK him!