Orson
"So you mean to tell me that they want you to not bring Maggie with you because Dina your ex is in the wedding party?"
My granny asked me as I unloaded my frustrations about this wedding drama I have been dragged into by my so-called best friend and his fiance.
My best friend Scott and his fiance Lisa asked me if they could use my ranch as a location for their wedding, and of course I agreed. After all he is my best friend, and I want him to have the best wedding possible.
But then Lisa turned into a full blown bridezilla.
She demanded that everyone in the wedding party go on some crazy diet, along with weekly weigh ins, and also demanded anyone that would be our plus ones submit to a background check and also sign a NDA.
I asked Scott if Lisa had lost her mother fucking mind, but all he seems to care about is making sure Lisa wishes are met.
It's like he literally handed Lisa his balls.
Which brings me to the issue that has caused me to fall out with him and Lisa all the way together.
Lisa demanded that I not bring my wife Maggie with me to the wedding because my ex Dina is in the wedding party, and is her best friend. She claims that she doesn't want any drama at the wedding and she knows that if Maggie is there Dina will feel triggered and cause a scene.
Maggie my wife knows how to act like an adult and would not be bothered by Dina. I stressed that several times to Lisa, but she wasn't trying to hear it. She is more concerned with her best friends feelings even though Dina is in the wrong.
Dina and I dated years ago, and our breakup was messy because she couldn't seem to understand I wanted nothing to do with her after she repeatedly cheated on me.
I had to threaten Dina with a restraining order in order to leave me alone.
She took the hint and left me alone.
It did put a strain on my friendship with Scott, because Lisa bitched to him that I should have been more understanding when it came to Dina.
She forbid Scott and I to hang out for a while.
Our other friends cannot stand Lisa and have slowly started to distance themselves from Scott.
Lisa has rubbed the other wives the wrong way with her behavior and treatment of Scott's other friends.
She would always comment on their marriages, or give unwanted advice, or insert herself in business that didn't pertain to her.
For example when us guys would come home from going out she would call their phones to confirm they actually were all together, and ask what they did and talked about.
Connie one of the wives of my friends told Lisa if she called her man with that weirdo shit again she was going to shove her foot up Lisa's frail ass.
I have had many conversations with Scott about Lisa's behavior, but he always found a way to defend and cosign Lisa's bullshit.
I really tried to stick it out because Scott has been a great friend over the years, but Lisa's behavior is starting to outweigh that.
The fact that He is asking me to not bring my wife to an event that's being held on my property is fucking nuts considering that half of what I own is my wife's as well.
I understand that Lisa wants her day to be special, and wants a drama free wedding but to ask me to not have my wife present because it would hurt Dina's feelings is crazy.
