♡ Compilation of Things About Love ♡

Kung Bakit Kailangan Masaktan

Dahil Tanging Ikaw by Jaya

Bakit kailangan puso ay masaktan

Bago maintindihan ang siyang nararamdaman

At kahit iwasa’y naro’n sa damdamin

Yakap at mga halik ay nadarama pa rin

Dahil tanging ikaw ang siyang lahat

Nang mawalay ka nang minsa’y hindi ko matanggap

Kulang ang sandali pag ika’y wala

Sadyang kapag wala ka’y wala rin ang tuwa

Kung ang ‘yong puso’y may mahal nang iba

Di pa rin magbabago ang aking nadarama

Ako ay aasang magbabalik ka pa rin

Ang iyong pagmamahal at ang dating pagtingin

Dahil tanging ikaw ang siyang lahat

Nang mawalay ka nang minsa’y hindi ko matanggap

Kulang ang sandali pag ika’y wala

Sadyang kapag wala ka’y wala rin ang tuwa

Bakit kailangan puso ay masaktan

Bago maintindihan ang siyang nararamdaman

At kahit iwasa’y naro’n sa damdamin

Yakap at mga halik ay nadarama pa rin

Dahil tanging ikaw ang siyang lahat

Nang mawalay ka nang minsa’y hindi ko matanggap

Kulang ang sandali pag ika’y wala

Sadyang kapag wala ka’y wala rin ang tuwa

Bakit nga ba? Aside from the reason/s stated in the song, there are so many instances where one really gets hurt to realize that love.

"Mahal kita kahit ang sakit-sakit na!!!"

Ayan! One famous line from John Lloyd Cruz. from the ONE MORE CHANCE

Here are some instances that love is getting in the way to hurt you:

Jealousy. Nasasaktan ka 'pag ang minamahal mo ay nasa piling ng iba. Hindi ka mapakali and you get paranoid. Then, you get insecured. It's up to you what happens next.

Reject. Ouchy huh? Getting rejected by the one you love can hurt like being shot by a gun. You expected at least somehow, that person will love you in return. But then again, he/she cannot.

He/She is in love with someone else. Its similar with reject. Likewise, it can lead to jealousy. You've been wanting to be in a relationship and eventually end up with this person, only to find out that he/she cannot love you back because he/she is already in a company of a better half. Puedeng naunahan ka lang or it's not really meant to be.

Death of a loved one/When the person left. You'd taken the person for granted while he/she was still alive and not realize his/her importance until he/she is gone. Sometimes, we don't value the person enough despite his/her love until he/she gets tired and leave you for someone or something better, that's the time we only realize what we lost.

Bakit kailangan na puso ay masaktan? 

Dahil doon lang natin naiintindihan ang totoong nararamdaman. Doon natin napagtatanto ang totoong sinisigaw ng ating mga puso. At doon tayo mas natututong magmahal.

Usually, we don't feel it when we're happy. We take it for granted. If things went wrong, that's the time when we realize the love.

Or maybe, we don't recognize it when it's there because of the fear of getting hurt. But eventually, it's going to get there and we have no choice.

"Wag 'kang matakot masaktan. Dahil doon mo makikita ang tunay mo'ng kaligayahan..."

'Yan ang sinabi ng tatay ni Cristina sa kanya bago siya namatay sa pelikula na Pangako... Ikaw Lang. 'Yan ang naging payo niya sa kanya nung nasasaktan na siya ng dahil kay Vince. (Btw, Pangako... Ikaw Lang starred Aga Muhlach as Vince, Regine Velasquez as Cristina, Robert Arevalo as Cristina's Dad, Bobby Andrews, and many more..... 

 Masaktan? 'Di talaga maiiwasan 'yun! It's part of life. Anyway, wala naman talagang masama 'pag minsan o madalas nasasaktan tayo. It's how we face it. However, don't let it eat you, ok?

Don't be scared.  It's temporary.

Believe me, you'll be a better person if you face it with courage.

Personal advice ko naman, pray :)  It's gonna help for sure.