This won't be a oneshotstory. Just sharing thoughts. Random thingy. hoho!
Love? Sino nga ba ang nabubuhay ng di nagmamahal? We're made from it. We won't be complete as whole if we haven't felt it.
From my experience in the past. I loved so much that i was about to lose myself physically and emotionally. You may not see the people around you, yung feeling na sa inyong dalawa nalang umiikot yung mundo. Wala ka ng pakialam sa sasabihin ng iba, sa iisipin nila at sa kahit anung gawin pa nila. Dumadating pa sa punto na okay na,na kayo nalang yung nageexist sa mundo. What we never realized, is that when we love we forget to love ourselves. Mas nagiging mahalaga yung taong mahal natin kesa sa mismong sarili natin. We never realized, that when we love we forget to think twice, we always want to believe what our heart exactly says. Yung tipong magbibingi bingihan ka na,magbubulag bulagan ka pa sa naririnig at nakikita mo.
"Love moves in mysterious ways." I do believe in that saying. Especially when i met that person . Love changes you. From what you want to what you believe in. Binabago ka nito sa paraang di mo hinihintay at ineexpect. It's more on like you're sitting on a bench loving to see the people around you then you realize in a second you love more to watch on the seaside with your loved one . Sometimes kasi, nagiging reckless tayo sa salitang pinaninindigan nating, "THIS IS ME!" . That does not work that way. Most of the time,people lose their loved ones because of being who they are. Kung hindi tayo nagkukulang,sumosobra tayo.
Love changes you in a way you won't think that "If you really love me, you'll accept me for who i am". But to change what makes you a BETTER person. Yung magbibigay sayo ng ideya kung paano magpakumbaba,magpasensiya,umintindi at umunawa sa mga bagay na di na nakakabuti para sayo. That reason na makakapagpabago ng pananaw mo and who will bring out the BEST in you.
People like to complicate things. It's as if they want that and that. They expect too much . Kapag nagmamahal tayo, mas madalas gusto natin yung mas nabibigyan tayo ng atensyon,ng oras at ng mga bagay na wala satin. . Kapag hindi yun nabigay, we end up being hurt and disappointed. Hinihiling natin to sa mismong partner natin na hindi natin alam they want the same thing. So hintayan nalang ba to? I think, the first thing to do is accept what you receive without expecting more from it. And give without asking anything in return. Mas masarap kasi sa feeling yung hindi mo ineexpect pero binigay sayo yun ng di mo hiniling . Blessings ika nga.
Still then, never naman nakuntento ang tao . Ipokrito/a ka kung sasabihin mong never kang humiling o nagsabi ng "SANA". Well, sa pag-ibig kasi it doesn't mean tapos ka na dun sa puntong nainlove ka,nagbigay ka, minahal mo,minahal ka. etc. You have to work for it EVERYDAY. Love ain't never enough. You have to get cooked by the main ingredients. TRUST and UNDERSTANDING Hindi masarap ang ulam na kulang sa rekado katulad lang sa Hindi din masarap ang LOVE kung hindi ka marunong umintindi at magtiwala.
Naniniwala ka ba sa " Kung mahal mo,you can patiently wait ".?
Ako hindi, "Kung mahal ka niya hindi niya magagawang maghihintay ka lang".
That would be unfair to the person who waits.
Unless there is a valid reason. Minsan kasi may mga taong nagpapakatanga't naghihintay sa bagay na alam naman na nilang HINDI PWEDE. Acceptance ang medicine mo dyan hijo/a.
Sa madaling salita, lahat ng bagay dito sa mundo ay panandalian lamang. Nasa sa inyo kung paano yun patatagalin. If di nagwork,then it's not meant to be.
Ang Beauty parang FOREVER it does only exist in the eyes of the beholder.
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