The Wine in Your Thoughts

The change

We have to learn and accept that people change with time, but it doesn't mean that people can change others. People change because of pressures in life. It doesn't mean that you should pressure someone to change for you. The change happens when life puts you in situations like "now or never".
Life is sometimes like the weather. You can predict things to happen, but the nature itself decides if it really going to happens or not. You will have sunny days where you can play out and have some fun in the sun. On the other hand you can have those days when it rains non stop that you couldn't even go out to the closest supermarket for a piece of bread. So is life. You think you can predict your future by making decisions now and wishing them to become a reality in the future, but in reality your destiny determines your future. It changes with every decision you make and you have no idea. Those sunny days we call those days when you are at your best. You are living the best of your life. With no complains. Everything is at your favor. But there are also the rainy days. Those days when you have zero energy, zero motivation. Everything seems to play a cold joke on you. Try to bring you down no matter what you try.
Life is testing our persistence, our faith and our motivation. A lot of things that we do and think can't compare to what life has for us in reality. We think we know everything. We thought we felt every feeling. Smell every scent. Breathe every air. But that is not all. There are a lot more to explore. Your view doesn't end at the edge of your nose. You have to see further than that to see the real beauty in the world. The realness behind reality. So is life. You have to live further than your current state to feel the real meaning of life.  The real feeling of living. We have a lot more to live and experience. Hard days are as important as good days. We have to learn to maintain them both in balance.
Wonder why people doesn't stay the same after all those life challenges, is because life makes you see it in different perspectives. It is important for you to know that the person you were before is not the same person you are today. You change and you don't even notice. Sometimes others tell you this. Maybe you don't see it right away, but the person you were two to five years ago is not the same as you are today in life.
Realize that change is good. It shows growth and maturity. Live and experience life is the best way to test your happiness, your growth and your change.