ironstrange headcanons

Spider-Woman

since my friend Jen is a MTF transgender girl, i'm gonna write this for her! this is about peter coming out as trans to stephen and tony. expect cuteness.

*peter is texting through phone*
P: Ned, i need to tell them about this. i just.. i feel like i can't take this anymore. but i'm scared. what if they don't love me anymore? what if they kick me out? what will i do?

N: Don't worry about it Pe- wait. did you choose a name already?

P: i was thinking about Petra, since it's the female version of Peter.

N: alright Petra! stay calm. stay grounded. just go there and say "dads, i need to talk to you about something." breathe. it's gonna be okay. if something happens, my house is a safe place. come on! i believe in you!

P: *smiles* thank you, Ned. you're the best friend a person could ever ask for. talk to you later. i'll let you know asap!

N: good luck!

Petra has never been so nervous before. before going downstairs, she fixes her hair and takes deep breaths.
she silently steps out of her room and gets downstairs and calls Stephen and Tony.

P: d-dads? i need.. to tell you something. it's.. pretty important.

tony rushes out of the room and stands in front of Petra, with a confused look

T: is everything okay Peter?

petra shrugs as tony calls her Peter and waits for stephen to come

P: i'm fine. i hope i will after i tell you this.

stephen immediately gets out of a portal and stands right near Tony.

s: hey? you alright?

p: y-yes. can we sit?

t: of course.

they all go and sit in their three chairs in the living room, facing each other.

t: so.. what's the matter? did you do something bad at school?

p: n-no dad.. it's.. a serious thing.
but please, promise me you won't get mad, hit me or kick me out because of this. please.

petra's eyes starts to fill with tears as she holds her shaky hands

t: oh dear, i would NEVER hit you. i would never kick you out. maybe i could get mad but i would never do something that bad to you. i could NEVER.

s: you don't need to be scared, sweetheart. you know that we will always support you no matter what. but now tell us. come on, breathe. it's all okay.

petra breathes as she tries to calm down

p: okay..
i don't know where to start, actually.
*in a shaky voice* i know this may be a huge surprise, and the first time you have thought of me this way, but I am transgender. Please don't think this is anyone's fault, or just something I will grow out of, as it almost certainly isn't.
For the past 2 years or so, I have been uncomfortable with my gender - both with its role in society, and my body. I started looking into this about 1 and a half year ago and that's when I discovered transgender people. When I looked into this, it explained certain feelings and actions from when I was much younger, too. It's taken a while to come to terms with, but basically, I'm a girl in a guy's body!
I know this is a lot to ask, but I would prefer it if you could start referring to me as female pronouns, with the name Petra instead of Peter and let me transition into living how I have felt like I should be living for a long time now - as a girl.

tony and stephen don't react. they just look at each other in a confused way.
at a certain point, Tony gets up and leaves the room, and gives stephen a sign to follow him.