I don't wanna talk bad on my stepmama but.....
So the other day, I was chillin in bed with my sister and my bro ran in like, "Can you make me a sandwhich?"
Ness told him he can make his own sandwhich, seeing as hes 8, so we went off on his way.
Later that day my bro ran in like, "CAN YOU TAKE ME OUTSIDE? MY FRIENDS ARE OUT THERE."
Now, The right thing is to say yes, but i was alll snuggled up in my bed, ness was napping, i was way not in the mood to go outside, and ness had mentioned before that if i really didnt want to go out then i should say so.
So I told child, "I dont really feel like it." V hesitenetly.
So he ran out of the room and came back like, "Mom said you can take me outside!"
And im like '???? I really don't feel like going out...'
But i understood, usually in a fam, when the child wants to go out, older sibs basically gotta take em. I was close to giving in until my other bro walked in and said. "You HAVE to take him, mom said."
And I got a bit triggered cuz, who is she to force me outside? (double standards, id deff do it if Michael told me to, guess cuz ik him better???)
Then ness spoke up like, "She said that? She cant do that, we don't HAVE to go out with you."
I mean tbh, he's her kid, not mine, why couldn't she go out with him? she was basically doing the same shit we were doing, laying in bed and watching youtube in her room.
Anywho, at this, my little brother ran out crying and not even a second later, the wifi was cut off, and not just turned off, the password was changed.
This really pissed me off, and like 2 seconds after, papa called on the home phone.
Headass bro gave me the phone with the look of, 'ha yur in trouble.' IM FUCKING 19 LITTLE SHIT< DONT TREAT ME LIKE IM A CHILD TF.
Pops was like, "what's going on, I hear you guys don't wanna do anything for the fam, you refused to make dan a sandwich and you apparently disrespected Quiana?"
I've never been so upset. The situation wasn't that serious, Quianas so dramatic.
I think I have an actual pet peeve of people babying their children when they are too old to be babied.
HE'S FUCCING 8, I WAS WASHING MY OWN CLOTHES AND MAKING MY OWN BREAKFAST LUNCH AND DINNER(microwaved lol) AT 8, HE CANT MAKE HIMSELF A SANDWICH?
Pops was like "yuh I understand ur point, but Quiana likes to do that stuff for the kids, so the kids would obvi want their big sisters to do the same stuff their mom does for them."
grr,
We also mentioned that we didn't like that we basically didn't have a choice to go out or not, we just had to do it, and im like, "so if he wants us to make him a sandwhich, we make it, and if he wants to go out, he can go out? so basically we do whatever they want us to do and we dont get any say at all."
He said, "Yes, do what they want, within reason, tough it out until I get there. ik it's annoying but you'll be out soon, it's very close now, soon you'll be out on your own and make your own decisions and live your own life, so just wait and stick it out, it's not so bad, you trust me right?"
I told him he's the man who keeps the peace, voice of reason.
After that call, we were wifi-less for the night. I was upset about it.
Also, She made dinner, and didn't even tell us, my brother came in after the fact like, "um, its dinner time...well dinner was done earlier, we already ate, sorry I didn't get you for dinner."
