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What's wrong with being confident?

So I was feeling confident today and I decided to make a bit of a self-confidence boost chapter here. I will make one of these once in a while. So while i was brushing my teeth, the bathroom lamp lighted the right spot on my face and it litteraly lighted on my eyes. And I actually felt they are pretty. Usually, my face contains:

- permanently furrowed eyebrows

- half closed eyes because I don't get enough sleep

- Dark circles under my eyes

- Probably wrinkles from the weird grimaces I do all the time

- Bushy eyebrows

BUT if you manage to see through all of these my eyes are a pretty shade of chockolate brown to chestnut brown and they have these little lines that are a darker shade of brown. It is weird to say they actually look... alive. No, not just alive, they look full of life and emotion. It is hard to explain- my eyes have this... depth? You sort of feel like there is a depth in them and there is more than two round thingies on your eye and not every person has that. Eg my mom's eyes are similar to mine but they lack this depth.

IT IS SO WEIRD saying this about myself but as I said I was feeling confident so I decided to compliment myself. My appearance is deffinitely not perfect and I have more imperfections than I can cound but it is nice to know that at least one thing on me is pretty.

YOUR TURN NOW. If you are reading this, write one pretty thing about yourself (not necessarily looks, it can be a personality trait if you think it will give you more confidence hearing it) NO SARCASM AND JOKES ARE ALLOWED. You have to find one thing you genuinely like about yourself and comment it. If you have nothing so far then find something out. I litteraly hadn't noticed my eyes looked like this until a few hours ago. 

Humans are not meant to be perfect. But no human is ugly. When I meet a person, there is always something to them that I think is beautiful. I have not met a single ugly person. Yes, I have met people that don't meet bauty standards and would probably be called ugly by others but I don't find them ugly. Because there is always one thing, one small detail that someone has that makes them unique and beautiful. If you were in front of me now I would tell you what yours is myself but since you are not in front of me you have to do it by yourself.

Lots of love,

Sophie ;)