Obey Me! Shall We Date Oneshots

Sex isn't everything

TW: alcohol, implied sexual harrasment
Perspective: third person

MC is gender neutral here but is implied to be AFAB due to their life experiences

Asmo and MC walk into Asmo's room, hand in hand. They close the door behind them as they lock lips, tasting different types of alcohol on each other's lips. They had both had just enough to start feeling tipsy but not enough to be drunk. Asmo pushes them against the closed door and moves his hands down to their waist, running a finger across their hip bone. He hooks a finger inside their pants when they push him away.
"I... I'm not ready." MC says, avoiding eye contact. This is how it always went. For months now, they'd be kissing when Asmo would move into something more intimate, then they'd say they weren't ready. He respected their boundaries, but...
"Are you ever going to be ready?" he questions. MC walks past him and sits on his bed, arms holding each other. Asmo sighs and sits next to them. "I... I don't want to push you, but we've been going back and forth like this for so long. Why haven't we had sex yet?" he asks.
"Because then you'll have no reason to keep hanging out with me." they answer honestly. "The only reason you keep on pursuing me is because you haven't gotten me yet. If I let you win, you'll just move on to someone else." Asmo looks at them sadly.
"That's not true-"
"Isn't it?" they inturrupt. "Guys like you only care about if I'll let you hit it. I don't even like sex, but everyone else does for some reason. I only do it because it's what's expected of me. It honestly makes me feel disgusting." they admit. Asmo stares on in silence.
"MC... I love you so much. It doesn't matter if you want to have sex or not. I know it's not for everyone. I just really like you and I don't know how to show it outside of physical acts. You could have told me to stop trying, I wouldn't have taken it personally." MC looks at him with a frown.
"Really? You're the Avatar of Lust... and you wouldn't take it personally if I said I don't want to have sex with you?" they ask apprehensively. Asmo gives them a supportive smile.
"Of course not. And I don't think you should have sex with anyone if you don't want to. You know, maybe you're ace."
"Ace?" they parrot, confused.
"Asexual. Being in queer communities has shown me that there are words for people who don't feel sexual attraction. There's a whole spectrum based on those who feel it occasionally, like greysexuals and demisexuals. There's also people who are homosexual panromantic, who would date any gender but would only have sex with the same gender. And that's only the tip of the iceberg! I'm actually pretty sure Levi's mentioned being on the ace spectrum before. Maybe it'd be helpful for you to research it a bit!" Asmo happily explains. MC sits dumbfounded.
"I... I can't believe you're being so cool about this... I've been dreading this conversation for months. I mean, you see why I'd be scared to tell the Avatar of Lust I don't wanna have sex, right?" Asmo chuckles at that.
"Yes, I see why that'd be scary. But, now that we're talking about this, what are your limits? Have you been uncomfortable every time I've kissed you?" he asks apprehensively. MC shakes their head.
"No, don't worry about that. I love kissing you. It's magical and lovely and... just the best. I do get uncomfortable when you try to push it too far, but I like making out." they answer. Asmo smiles and cups their cheek.
"That's wonderful to hear." he says softly before leaning in to kiss them. "I'm so glad we were able to figure this out, darling. I love you." He kisses them again.
"I love you too, Asmo. Thank you."