Gabsile

Engagement party

****Siyanda Simelani ***

Once we land Mpilo hands him a red velvet box and he goes down on one knee and puts a beautiful ring with an actual diamond that's soo big you could never hide it on my finger and everyone , the hotel stuff included ululates. We go to the private beach where there are tables set and chefs , waiters and waitresses waiting to serve us and before we sit,  Senzo introduces himself and gives us a hug and everyone gives us a hugg.

We have food I could never pronounce or spell , that look soo delicious and after eating we start talking , laughing and the resort band starts playing so we stand up and dance , what a time to be alive , happy and inlove.

**** Duduzane Buthelezi ****

Our parents are ecstatic , I saw my father dancing with both our mothers from the corner of my eye when I was dancing with my fiance and I knew , that my fiancè is heaven sent. When the band packed up their equipment my father pulled me aside for a hug. He didn't say anything but I knew that he was proud of me , I knew that he loved her like his own daughter , when he broke his hug he looked at me with teary eyes and asked me if I was ready and I just nodded because I feel as though I was born for her , for being her boyfriend , friend , husband and one day the father of her kids.

****Siyanda Simelani****

We were moved into a bigger Villa as women because my mother inlaw belives that sleeping together before lobola and the actual wedding brings bad luck and obviously we all don't want it. I cried soo much today , I don't think I have any tears left , and everytime I cried Sonini would tear up too and soon her husband would too and then everyone would be crying happy tears with me. I love this , I love all of them and I wish I could take a video of this day and show my baby once she is born , this here is genuine love.

Sonini told my mother-in-law about my baby and she told Mpilo , Senzo and her husband who promised to keep it a secret until after lobola negotiations. She also asked the hotel stuff not to serve alcohol at our party tonight , and she promised to handle her son if he ever asks questions. If I'm not blessed , who is ?

****Duduzane Buthelezi ****

I should be happy ,and excited because im going to be a married man soon but my fiancè moved out of our villa and I had to move in with my brothers because my lovely mother belives sleeping with the love of my life brings bad luck. I also noticed that I had been drinking mocktails at my engagement party after three glasses of sex on the beach and when I asked my brother about it he said its to prevent us from breaking the separate villa rule, my father doesn't mind , he is sitting next to the love of his life and laughing.

At our boring no alcohol party I tried a million times to signal Siyanda to follow me down to the private beach but she ignored me and when I went to dance next to her , my father tugged my hand and whispered in my ear that I should respect my mother's wishes and I did , I also went to the boys Villa and video called my friends who have a week long bachelor's celebration planned.