When someone asks how we are i shouldn't have to lie and say shes supportive and loving and has always made me happiest and that I feel comfortable opening up to her. I shouldn't feel the need to pretend to lie. You would think I would be honest and tell the truth but no I lie and say all the things they want to hear but in in reality I don't tell her much because she always tells someone else I shouldn't need to lie about the fact she puts me down and calls me things when she thinks I don't hear because that's not fair I shouldn't feel the need to lie.