My Journey Through Self Love

Chapter 7 - My Life Plan & Purpose

My purpose is to love God and serve others, living life according to His word. My goal is to experience a deep sense of inner peace and connection with God. I want to have a clear sense of purpose and direction in my life, and I want get rid of my own ego and self entitlement to let God guide my actions and decisions with wisdom and compassion. To get started, I can get back into Bible studying everyday and feel His presence within me, surrendering my fears and concerns to His truth and power.

My purpose is to feel my emotions and be self-compassionate, showing myself kindness and learning from my feelings. My purpose is also to express these emotions in a healthy way so that I can have better relationships with others. I want to be emotionally resilient, able to navigate life's ups and downs with grace, balance, and self love. I want to have a strong awareness of my emotions and effectively manage stress through healthy coping mechanisms. I want my emotional intelligence to allow me to form deep and meaningful connections with others, fostering a sense of belonging and support. I can get to this goal by journaling everyday, and taking a few moments to label my emotions. When I'm stressed, I can take a break, go outside and do different things to calm myself down. I can also start sharing my feelings with my friends, family, and coworkers, and become more comfortable being open with them.

My purpose is to take care of my body, by sleeping, exercising, and eating healthy so that I can be there for others. I want to be strong, possessing vibrant health and good fitness. I want to increase my energy levels so that I can tackle daily challenges with ease and enthusiasm. I want to maintain a balanced diet, get regular exercise three or more times a week, and get sufficient rest. I can get started by waking up earlier to stretch, and making it point to incorporate a 10-15 minute bodyweight exercise routine 3 times a week.

My purpose is to fill my mind with knowledge and share it with those around me. My purpose is to also use this knowledge and apply it to my life so that I make better decisions.
I want my mind to be sharp and curious, constantly seeking new knowledge and understanding. I want to engage in lifelong learning through reading, education, and exploring new interests. I want to develop my creativity and critical thinking skills so that I can solve problems and innovate in various aspects of my life. I can dedicate some time to read or learn something new throughout the week (even is I dedicate 15 minutes to learning).

My purpose as a daughter is to support my mom, acknowledging her efforts and sacrifices. My purpose is to also show my mom love and respect and maintain open and honest communication with her. I want my relationship with my mom to be one of mutual respect and deep affection. I want to regularly express gratitude and appreciation for her, and I want us to support each other through life's challenges. I want to cherish the time spent together, creating a strong, loving connection. I can dedicate time each week to have a meaningful conversation with my mom and doing things to alleviate her workload, like taking care of different chores.

My purpose as an older sister is to provide support and encouragement in helping my sister through challenges and celebrating her successes. My purpose is also to be a friend and share experiences together, including shared familial responsibilities. Lastly my purpose is to set a positive role model for my sister and mentor my sister so that she is well prepared for life.
Me and my sister share a close and trusting relationship. We support each other's goals and dreams, offering encouragement and understanding. We enjoy each other's company, creating joyful and memorable experiences together. I can continue to spend quality time with her each week.

My purpose is to love and be there for my friends who in turn love, challenge, and hold me accountable to my goals. I want my friendships to be loyal, uplifting, and enriching. I want to surround myself with friends who inspire and motivate me, and I do the same for them. I can reach out to a friend once a week to catch up, even if it's just a short message or call. I can also make an effort to converse more and expand my social network.

My purpose is to support my colleagues so that they can grow and develop professionally. No matter where I work, I want my relationships with coworkers to be collaborative and respectful. I want us to work well as a team, contributing to a positive and productive work environment. I want to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and support each other's professional growth. I can always make an effort to engage in small talk with my coworkers and briefly check in with them. I can also be better at offering support, fostering that collaborative environment.

My purpose is to pursue my own career growth and independence, setting my own goals and building my own career path so that I can make a positive impact in the world. I want to be passionate about my work, finding fulfillment, growth, and purpose in my career. I want my job to align with my values and skills, allowing me to thrive and make a meaningful impact. I want to balance my professional responsibilities with personal interests and hobbies, ensuring a well-rounded and satisfying life.

My purpose is to use money for good and to support myself, my family, and others in a way that is sustainable. My purpose is to also give to those in need. I also need to invest, grow, and protect my money so that my family in the future will be financially stable and secure.
I want to be financially secure and independent, with a clear plan for the future. I want to manage my finances wisely, saving and investing for long-term goals. I want to have financial stability that allows me to enjoy life without stress, providing me and my family with the freedom to pursue my passions and dreams. I can have more conversations with my family about money and gradually taking control of my finances. I can also begin creating a plan to manage my debt and control my spending habits.