Quick Disclaimer: I wrote most of this book before coming out as non-binary! I may use my birthname and female pronouns, but those do not currently honor me. Hi! My name is Lane, and I use they/them pronouns. Hope you enjoy!
This is me! I first thought I was demisexual, but after doing more research I identified more with this.
Quoi can have several definitions, but the general consensus is that you cannot tell what sexual or romantic attraction is supposed to feel like. This is also known affectionately as WTFsexual. You can also be quoi if:
1. You don't identify with any existing ace/aro spec labels (Me)
2. You an't tell sexual or romantic attraction from other types of attraction
3. If you don't know if you've ever felt either attraction before
Even though this is the more accurate definition for me, I usually just say I'm asexual to avoid confusion, because who actually knows what this means outside of Tumblr?
As always, please leave me any questions you have regarding the spectrum, my orientation, or anything LGBT+ related! Thank you for reading, I really do appreciate it <3 Love you guys
YOU ARE READING
The Asexuality And Aromantic Spectrum And My Experiences
Non-FictionThis is for the people who are really freaking confused about the asexuality and aromantic spectrum. I will go over the many, MANY orientations under the ace/aro umbrella in detail, and don't hesitate to ask questions! (Also, the cover is the asexua...