Relationships Advice

What is love?

[10.]She misses you, but she won't tell you that does. She's fighting the urge to hit you up & tell you how much she misses you, but she knows she shouldn't. Because she knows if she does, she'll come running back to you, but she knows you're not good for her. It's just hard for her to pretend like she's over you, but she feels like if she can keep this up for awhile, she will actually get over you & move on with her life. She just has these moments where she thinks of you & wonders how you're doing & thinks back about how you guys used to be. She does wish you guys would go back to being what you used to be, but realistically, it's for the better if you guys don't get back together & she knows that. It took awhile for her to accept, but she did & now ignoring you is the hardest thing for her to do. But she does hope that you are happy right now, even if it's because of another girl.

[11.] Sometimes, being "just friends" is not enough because you've just gotten to the point where you're fallen too deep for someone that you cannot settle to be anything but lovers with that person. It's either you can have this person entirely, or you don't want any part of them because it won't be good enough, it won't fair because you have to act like you feel nothing towards them but on the inside, you just wanna reach out & pull them in & hold them & kiss them. To be friends with that person, you would have to hold all of those feelings back & keep your thoughts to yourself & honestly, you're not gonna be able to keep up with that forever. Jealousy is gonna kick in when you see that person with someone else & you're not even supposed to be getting jealous because you're just friends but it's hard not to when you care about someone intimately. It's just hard to look at that person & act like friendship is good enough for you when you want more than that, but they don't.

[12.] Do you think you can handle the real her? After the butterfly stage ends in 3-4 months, that's usually when a girl's comfortable enough to be more of herself around you & be less conservative. That's when you can see how she looks without make up, that's when you don't have to leave the room or turn around when she changes her clothes, that's when you get to see how much of a bitch she can be when she's on her period, that's when you get to see her not dress up & her hair's all messy or tied up, that's when you get to see her weird sense of humor, that's when you get to see her be more open about burping or farting in front of you, that's when you get to see her emotional side where she lets everything out. So, what do you think? Scared? Think she'll be too much? Because let me tell you, if you do turn out to be able to handle her, it's worth it.

[13.] Guess what? Even if you lie to her, she will still find out the truth. Maybe not now, maybe not anytime soon, but she will find out. Girls always find out. When a female's intuition kicks in, most of the time, it's right. Girls will go through any lengths to find out the truth. See, the thing is, girls, they notice every little detail about everything you do & say. Will they always bring up that they notice? No, because they don't want you to know they notice, but they remember every little thing & if things start to not add up, they're gonna start investigating. By investigating, I mean snoop through your phone, go through your history, ask your friends about you etc. At first, she'll give you the benefit of the doubt & take your word for whatever you tell her, but be careful with what you tell her, because regardless of if you had good intentions to lie to her, a lie is a lie & she'll never trust you the same way again.

[14.] If a girl can be loyal & committed to you & she isn't even with you, then what the fuck are you waiting for? She needs to be taken already. Why haven't you asked her to be your girlfriend yet? She's already proven she is wifey material. She's already shown that she's serious about you. She's already expressed that she wants to be with you. All of these things should be obvious to you, but you don't wanna make it official with her? All I'm saying is, don't wait too long because eventually, a girl gets tired of waiting to be asked out because if she starts to feel like it isn't gonna happen, then she'll stop wasting her time & drop you. Then you're gonna be all full of regrets thinking that you should have made it official with her while finding out that another guy did. All she wanted to be was your girl but you let her slip away. So if you have a faithful girl, don't let her stay single for long.

[15.] If you have a girl who would cook for you, at least do the dishes afterwards. If you have a girl who would clean up after you, at least make sure everything stays neat. If you have a girl who would pay for you, at least pay her back with some love. If you have a girl who buys you things, at least make good use of those things. If you have a girl who would rather chill with you instead of hanging out with her friends, at least show her the same attention that she's showing you. If you have a girl who would reject other guys & tell them she's already with you, at least prove that you deserve to have her. If you have a girl who would go out of her way just to make you happy, at least do everything you can to put a smile on her face as well. If you have a girl who would let the world know that she loves you, at least show the world that you love her too. Some of you guys don't know how good you have it.

[16.]A real girlfriend makes her boyfriend feel like the relationship is about him, too & he doesn't always have to be the one who tries to make her happy because she also has to try just as hard, if not harder. A real girlfriend would spoil her boyfriend just like he would spoil her instead of being the one who always receives but never gives because she likes to show him how much she appreciates him with tokens of appreciation. A real girlfriend would stick by her boyfriend's side when he's broke & she wouldn't leave him to deal with that alone because she doesn't see him any differently or her feelings won't change just because he doesn't have a lot of money. A real girlfriend would be there for her boyfriend when he is at his lowest & be understanding of how he feels instead of giving him his space & do her own thing until he feels better because simply, if he isn't happy, she isn't either.

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