Relationships Advice

A Broken Heart

[141.] Already found a new girl and you and her just broke up not too long ago? You moved on pretty quick there. It makes her question if you actually cared about her. She feels stupid right now because while you're enjoying your new girl, she's still sad over you. When she found out, she hated you so much because she felt betrayed, she felt lied to, and she felt used. How could you have gotten over her so fast while she still loves you just the same? How could you be laying with a new girl already when she still can't see herself be with anyone else but you? How could you be happy with someone new when she's miserable without right now? She doesn't even know what to feel right now because she's so conflicted on the inside. Was it all just a lie? Did you mean anything you said to her while being with her? Has she been wasting her time on you? Well, thanks. You made her fall for you and now she's trapped in love with you.

[142.] Of course your girl is jealous of her. You and her are just friends, right? You and your girl started out as just "friends" too and look at what you two did together while being "friends". She doesn't trust that "friend" of yours. That "friend" of yours might not even give a fuck that you already got a girl. That "friend" of yours might not even not even respect your relationship with your girl. That "friend" of yours might not even think you as a friend. Your girl is just afraid that your "friend" might tempt you into doing things you're gonna regret and manipulate you to the point where you'll want to leave her to be more than "friends" with your "friend". No girl talks to a guy a lot if she only sees him as a friend and that girl definately doesn't talk to you like you're just one of her guy friends. So can you blame her for having her suspicions? She just feels iffy about that bitch.

[143.] She wonders if you still look at her and think "Damn, she's hot." She wonders if you still get excited to see a new text message from her. She wonders if you still think about her after not seeing her for awhile. She wonders if you still miss her right after you guys part ways. She wonders if you still have fun with her when you guys go out on dates. She wonders if you still get sad when it's time for her to go. She wonders if you still gets jealous when you see her talk to another guy. She wonders if you still get amazed when she gets all dressed up for you. She wonders if you still feel like you're lucky to have her. She wonders if you still never get bored when you're with her. She wonders if you still feel the same way for her. She wonders if you still see a future with her. She wonders if you still mean it when you tell her you love her.

[144.] You should have nothing to hide from your girlfriend. If she wants to see your text messages, show her. If she wants to know what your passwords are for your social networks, let her know. If she wants to know where you are, tell her. If she wants to know who you're with, be honest with her. If she wants to know how many girls you've been with, give her the real number. If she wants to know how many girls you've had sex with, be real with her. If she wants to know about your past, open up to her. If she wants to know what's on your mind, don't be afraid to share it with her. If she wants to know what you're upset about, be straight up with her. If she wants to know if she did something wrong, tell her how you feel. If she wants to know if you did something wrong, come clean with her. If she wants to know if you lost feelings for her, tell her the truth. Don't hide anything from your girl, bro.

[145.] She's seen it all and heard it all. All of the guys she's been with in the past all practically told the same lies, made up the same bullshit excuses, and repeated the same mistakes. It gets harder and harder for a girl to believe what a guy says after dealing with so many. It sort of becomes a pattern after awhile and they start becoming predictable. It's gotten to the point where if a guy were to leave her hanging, she wouldn't even be sad about it, she'll be like "oh, it's whatever". It's gotten to the point where if a guy were to ignore her, she wouldn't even be mad, she'll be like "oh, okay then". It's gotten to the point where if a guy were to have another girl on the side and she found out, she wouldn't even be surprised, she'll be like "k, bye". Everything that used to disappoint her no longer disappoints her because her only expectation now is to be disappointed.