Relationships Advice

Be Your One & ONLY

[136.]She's a girl, bro. What do you expect? She's gonna take long to get ready so she can look good for you. Either have patience with her or don't be with her. She's gonna have her mood swings because there's a lot going on inside her body. Either have tolerance for it or don't be with her. She's gonna have mixed feelings about things at times because she has a lot on her mind. Either be understanding about it or don't be with her. She's gonna have her trust issues when you put yourself in certain situations that make her uncomfortable. Either be able to have reassurance or don't be with her. She's gonna have her bad days where she's gonna be a total bitch because nothing is going right for her. Either be man enough to be able to handle her at her worst or don't be with her. If you can't deal with the way she is, then don't be with her because it would just waste her time.

[137.] It isn't easy for a girl to leave the guy she's been through so much with, even if she's unhappy. Even if he makes her cry, she can't forget how he used to make her smile. Even if he pisses her off, she can't forget the joy he used to bring her. Even if he ignores her, she can't forget the amount of attention he used to give her. Even if he's gotten too busy to spend time with her, she can't forget all of the times they shared together. Even if he's stressing her out, she can't forget how relieving it would be just be talking to him. Even if he's being a complete asshole towards her, she can't forget how sweet he was to her. Even if he's being distant towards me, she can't forget how close they were before. Even if he shows no interest in her, she can't forget the effort he used to make for her. Even if he acts like he doesn't care, she can't forget how he used to express the way he feels about her.

[138.] You know what she's afraid of? She's afraid that you're not gonna think she's attractive later on because you've seen her too much. She's afraid that you're gonna get bored of her later on because you'll be too used to everything she talks about and does. She's afraid that you're gonna be less affectionate with her later on because you've already done everything with her. She's afraid that you're gonna start avoiding her later on because you've spent too much time with her and want your own space. She's afraid that you're gonna start ignoring her later on because you've run out of things to say to her. She's afraid that you're gonna lose interest in her later on because you've already learned everything about her and there's nothing new. She's afraid that you're gonna lose feelings for her later on because you're no longer chasing her since you have her and you won't want her anymore.

[139.] Have some fucking respect for peoples' relationships and don't try to get in between two people who are happy together. What is there not to get about that? Why would you even try to go after someone who's already taken? If you see two people who are happy, you leave them alone and tell yourself to move on with your life. Oh, you just happen to like someone who's in a relationship? Well, honestly, tough shit. Learn to cope with the fact that right now, it's just not gonna happen. When and if that person's relationship doesn't work out and that person's single again, go right ahead and chase that person all you want. Right now, however, is not that time. If that person were with you right now, would you like it if someone tried to ruin your relationship and cause problems and drama between you two? I would think not. So again, have some fucking respect for peoples' relationships.

[140.] How they used to talk..

Him: Hey

Her: Hey!

Him: What are you up to?

Her: Nothing really, you?

Him: Nothing much, just thought of you and wanted to text you

Her: Awww you're cute

Him: are you doing anything today?

Her: Nope no plans, what about you?

Him: I was wondering if you want to hang out? Maybe go eat and see whatever happens from there?

Her: Sure when do you want to go? Him: How about right now?

Her: Okay, I'll get ready!

Him: See you soon!

Her: See you soon!

Later that night..

Him: I had a lot of fun today

Her: Me, too thanks for taking me out!

Him: Of course! I love spending time with you

Her: I love spending time with you too

Him: I miss you already

Her: I miss you too

How they talk now..

Her: Hey babe

Him: Hey

Her: What are you doing?

Him: Just chillin, you?

Her: Oh, nothing just bored

Him: I see

Her: Wanna do something?

Him: Like what? There's nothing to do

Her: I don't know, anything

Him: Let's just hang out tomorrow I'm tired

Her: You don't want to see me?

Him: I'm just tired babe

Her: Okay.. I miss you

Him: Miss you too. I'ma ttyl okay? Gonna play video games

Her: Okay. I love you

Later that night..

Her: No I love you back?

TRUE OR NAH?