Relationships Advice

Is Love just a Game?

[71.] Any bitch can spend a man's money, ride in his car, lay up in his house, order off the menu, & spread her legs, but only a REAL woman can help a man achieve his goals in life, supports him when he's broke, constantly pushes him to be successful, showers him with positive energy, compliments him on a regular, & never kicks him while he's down. Instead, she lifts him up. If you're able to find a woman like that, WIFE HER.

[72.] You know what fucking hurts? Finding out the person you're with, flirts with other people, go out with other people, mess around with other people, have feelings for other people, especially with someone you don't like. & they still have the nerve to tell you they care about you & only you. Such bullshit. If you really did care about me, there would be no one else. Period. I'd be the only one you flirt with, go out with, mess around with, seek comfort from, have feelings for. Damn, if your significant other tells you not to talk to a certain person, you respect your significant other & NOT TALK TO THAT PERSON.

[73.] Don't you hate being attached to someone who you're not even with? It's like, you don't have to be with someone to have feelings for them. You care about this person, & you wouldn't flirt or mess around with anybody else cause it wouldn't feel right. But the person you like, doesn't really care & they flirt & mess around with other people & don't even feel bad. Despite that, you still care, cause you can't get over them, feelings have been there too long to simply be rid of them. Because you're stuck on that person, you're missing out on everyone else out there.

[74.] Have you ever loved someone more than you loved yourself? Like, you treated them better than you treated yourself, you deal with their bullshit even though you know you shouldn't be, you stuck with that person even though they didn't deserve you, you forgave them no matter how many times they made a mistake even though they ran out of chances already, you won't leave that person even though all your friends suggested you to do so. All because, you wanted to be with them, & nobody else, even though you know you'll be treated like shit, to you it's worth it.

[75.] Have you ever wanted to text someone saying "I miss you", then erased it & wrote "what's up" instead? Or have you ever written a long paragraph in a text and you wrote down how you felt, & wanted to send it to someone special, but maybe you were afraid you weren't gonna get a reply cause you made it awkward, so you just drafted it or erased the whole thing & didnt bother texting them at all?

[76.] You meet someone unexpectedly. You guys start talking as friends. The conversations are casual. You guys talk more & more & it becomes a habit. Now you're sending them good morning and good night text messages every day. You guys start talking for longer periods of time. Now the conversations are deep. Someone between all these talks, you got attached to this person. Time goes by. There was less to talk about. There was less affection being shown. There was less feelings being felt. Until eventually, one of you guys no longer feel that attachment. Now, the conversations don't happen at all. You guys went from strangers, to friends, to lovers with benefits, to strangers with memories.. & that's the story of our lives.