Relationships Advice

Every King Needs A Queen

[123.]She usually never gets jealousy over a guy, but it's different with you. For some reason, she gets jealous whenever you and other girls interact. Maybe it's because she knows you're good looking and she knows other girls think so too, or maybe it's because a prettier girl might talk to you and you'll think that girl's prettier than she is. She knows it's dumb, she knows it's silly, and she knows it's a little immature, but she can't help it. She can't help but be selfish with you. She can't help but want you all to herself. She can't help but be afraid to lose you. The thought of losing you to another girl absolutely kills. So forgive her for caring too much. Forgive her for being over-protective. Forgive her for not trusting any girl you talk to. It's not even that she's insecure, it's simply how she is once she's attached to someone & that someone is very special to her.

[124.] It's okay. She's used to people using her. She's used to people walking out of her life. She's used to people talking shit about her. She's used to people pretending to be her friends. She's used to people lying to her. She's used to people disappointing her. She's used to people leaving her hanging. She's used to people stabbing her in the back. She's used to people replacing her in their circle of friends. She's used to people keeping secrets from her. She's used to people betraying her trust. She's used to people bringing down her self-esteem. She's used to people messing with her feelings. She's used to people toying around with her head. She's used to people breaking her heart. So whatever you do to her at this point, it won't be a surprise to her because chances are, it's already been done to her. It's just sad how it's gotten to the point where she can say she's used to it.

[125.] She's the type of girl who loves to be playful in a relationship. She'll threaten to beat you up if you make her mad. She'll tell you she'll kick your ass if you try to mess with her. She'll have a more insulting comeback if you try to diss her. She'll punch you if you try to make a joke on her. She'll chase you around if you keep annoying her. She'll slap you if you say something stupid. She'll tickle you if you aren't showing her enough attention. She'll push you if you try to bully her around. She'll bring up embarassing things about you if you try to have everyone laugh at her. She'll kick you in the balls if you try to scare her. She'll go for your ticklish spot if you try to wrestle with her. She'll mess with your sneakers if you try to mess with her make up. She'll turn off your video games if you don't let her watch her favorite show. Basically, she'll be an even bigger asshole if you try to be an asshole towards her.

[126.] It's been awhile since she received a text message from you that made her smile for the whole day. It's been awhile since she got a spontaneous "You're beautiful" from you when she's looking shitty. It's been awhile since she got a random surprising gift from you for no occasion at all. It's been awhile since she read a sweet message from you while you're away from her. It's been awhile since she's felt the butterflies from your hugs & kisses. It's been awhile since she was satisfied with how a date with you went. It's been awhile since she felt like you were showing her off to the world. It's been awhile since she felt like you really missed her & couldn't wait to see her again.

[127.] Sometimes, she misses how warm your hugs feel. Sometimes, she misses how complete you made her feel when you held her hand. Sometimes, she misses how special you made her feel when you would tell her you're thinking about her. Sometimes, she misses how important you made her feel when you would tell her you want to see her. Sometimes, she misses how beautiful you made her feel when you would give her this certain look. Sometimes, she misses how high you made her feel when you would kiss her for a long time. Sometimes, she misses how safe you made her feel when you would hold her throughout the night. Sometimes, she misses how happy you made her feel when you would tell her how much you love her. Sometimes, she wishes that you guys were still together, but then she remembers that she's better off without you.

[128.] She's not one of those high maintenance girls. She doesn't need you to take her out to a fancy dinner all the time. She would be happy with some cheeseburgers, some french fries, some chicken nuggets, and a soda. She doesn't need you to take her out to see a new movie in theaters every week. She would be happy watching some Netflix with you at home while cuddling up with you. She doesn't need you to buy her gifts every chance you get. She would be happy if you could just give her the things money can't buy like attention, affection, patience, time, and honesty. It would be nice if you can take her to a fancy dinner or go out on a movie date or get her a gift once in a while, yeah, but does she need it? No, of course not. It's the simple things that make her happy. As long as you continue to show her she means something to you, you'll mean something to her.

[129.] After awhile, a girl just gets tired of trying. She begins to think it isn't worth it anymore because she shouldn't have to try so hard to be with someone. The guy she likes isn't as attractive to her as he was before anymore because she starts seeing how ugly he can be on the inside. The guy she likes isn't as fun as she thought he was before anymore because she starts getting bored of these games he plays. The guy she likes isn't as sweet to her as she thought he was before anymore because she starts realizing how much of an asshole he actually is. The guy she likes isn't as special to her as he was before anymore because she starts getting impatient with him having some excuse why he can't be with her yet. She's given him her mind, her body, and her soul & she wishes that she hadn't so soon because that caused her to get attached too soon, but that attachment is slowly starting to fade away.

[130.] After a girl has met too many wrong guys, been in too many wrong relationships, had too many wrong feelings, gave out too many wrong chances, she just starts to believe that everything is too good to be true. If a guy were to try to be nice to her, she would question it. If a guy were to try to compliment her, she would not accept it. If a guy were to tell her how he feels about her, she would think it's bullshit. If a guy were to make her promises, she would think he's lying. If a guy were to try to be her friend, she thinks he has a hidden motive behind it. If a guy were to do sweet things for her, she would think he just wants something out of it. If a guy were to tell her he loves her, she would think it isn't true. See, eventually, a girl gets so used to being treated like shit that if a guy were to treat her right, she would find it weird & think that she doesn't deserve it.

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