Relationships Advice

No Matter What

[131.]What a girl needs more than a boyfriend is a guy best friend or a brother figure she can depend on. You know, that one guy she can run to when the guys in her life simply suck. That one guy she can run to when she needs advice life or relationships. That one guy she can run to when she's going through something her girls or her family can't seem to understand. That one guy she can run to when she's made a mistake & wants to tell someone about it without being judged. That one guy she can run to when she's having a boring day and needs someone to hang out with & keep her company. That one guy she can have a conversation with about absolutely anything and feel so comfortable with. That one guy who knows her more well than she knows herself. Who knows? Maybe one day, that one guy will be the boyfriend she needed all along.

[132.] She never said she was perfect, did she? So you shouldn't expect her to be. She's gonna make mistakes and probably repeat those mistakes until she finally learns from them. She's gonna get mad over stupid things and most likely keep getting mad over those things until she eventually realizes it is dumb. She's gonna ask you 21 questions about where you're at, who you're with, and what you're doing & she'll possibly ask you over & over again until she feels like she knows you well enough to not ask anymore. She's gonna argue with you over the most ridiculous things & she'll keep putting up a fight until she understands to agree to disagree & just drop it. She's gonna come off heartless and she's gonna keep coming off like she doesn't need you until she can see that you genuinely care about her.

[132.] A lot of females nowadays are slowly becoming the nigga that broke their hearts. Females have just gotten to the point where they're sick and tired of being the ones who get hurt, get fucked over, and get left feeling stupid in the end. They don't want to feel played anymore. They don't want to feel disappointment anymore. They don't want to feel attached anymore. So how do they avoid feeling all of those things? By using what those guys taught them. In a way, those guys taught them how to be the ones who have more power in a relationship, how to be more in control of how the relationship goes, and how they can keep themselves distant enough to not get hurt. They're now letting these guys know what it feels like to have your heart broken. Is it the best way? No, but that seems to be the only way to make an asshole turn gentleman.

[133.] Niggas be like "She's such a hoe and she's so ugly".. yet, you dated her and you fucked her. I don't understand why some guys start talking mad shit about a girl after they stopped dating them. Like damn, was she that bad of a girl to you? If so, then why did you stay with her then? You guys only focus on the negative parts and the bad memories with a girl after a break up, and you fail to remember all the good things about her and all of the happy memories you made together. Now you're going around saying "fuck that bitch" but once upon a time, that "bitch" was the girl you obsessed over, that "bitch" was the girl you couldn't stop texting, that "bitch" was the girl you always wanted to chill with, that "bitch" was the girl you would get jealous over, that "bitch" was the girl you introduced to your friends and brought home to your parents, that "bitch" was the girl you claimed you loved.

[134.] It's funny how you would talk mad shit about the girl you're no longer with, saying how she's a bitch or a slut or a hoe. But you wanna know what's funny about that? That you once liked that "bitch", that you wouldn't leave that "bitch" alone at one point, that you chased that "bitch" because you wanted her, that you brought that "slut" to your house & let her meet your parents, that you made it official with that "slut" & made her your girlfriend, that you told that "slut" you loved her, that you thought about making that "hoe" your wife, that you wanted to be with that "hoe" forever, that you once felt like that "hoe" was everything to you. Hilarious, isn't it? How she meant so much to you but now you're talking about her like she's nothing to you?

[135.] Hey, girl, let me guess. You have this guy friend, who likes you, but the problem is, you don't like him like that and only see him as a friend. Another problem is, you tell him you just want to be friends, and even though he knows that, he still tries. Another problem is, he would get jealous when you would be other guys and you're wondering why he should be jealous when you're not even his girl. Another problem is, he would make you feel bad for not liking him back and that makes you feel terrible, and you don't wanna lose him as a friend, cause you do care for him, just not the way he wants you too. Am I right?