Relationships Advice

Love Notes

[45.] You know what a girl hates hearing? "I'm sorry". You know what a girl hates hearing even more? "I'm sorry" being used over the same bullshit over & over again. That just shows her you didn't learn your lesson & she shouldn't have forgiven you all those times because you keep making the same mistakes. Just stop making those mistakes so you have nothing to be "sorry" for in the first place. If you were truly sorry the first time, there wouldn't be a 2nd or 3rd time. "I'm sorry" loses it's meaning once you use it too much, so just stop having something to be sorry for.

[46.] You were fine before him, & guess what? You'll be fine without him. You think you can't live without him, but the truth is, you can. In fact, you're better off without him because yeah, at one point in time, you guys were happy, you guys were loving, you guys were certain of a future together. But look what happened, you guys are no longer together today because you both became miserable. It was the right thing to leave. Don't be sad because it's over, because at this point you should look at it as an experience that helped you grow & taught you lessons. It may hurt now, but you'll see that you'll be alright.

[47.] It's the little things that means a lot to her. You don't have to go out of your way to do things for her that aren't necessary. All she's really looking for is for you to remember the little details she mentions & bring it up later because that would surprise her. She's looking for you to spontaneously cook for her or leave her cute little messages to wake up to or when she checks her social networks because that'll let her know you're trying to make her happy. She's looking for you to treat her the same way you treated her when you first met her & not get too comfortable to start acting like an asshole because that'll show her your feelings haven't left.

[48.] If you're not over a girl yet, don't use another girl to help you forget about her & move on, because it's not gonna work & those thoughts & feelings for that girl will eventually come back because all the new girl did was help take your mind off of her for a little, not completely remove her out of your system. Getting over a girl works best when you do it on your own, because if you just move on to a new girl that quickly, you won't be able to entirely be all hers because there will be some parts of you that will still miss your ex. So don't use a girl to help you get over another one, because most of the time that doesn't work & you end up with having no girl at all.

[A/N: Short. but yeah, ya know.. give me feed back (: ]