Relationships Advice

What do you know about love?

[23.] Every girl needs a little reassurance every now & then. She just needs a reminder from you that you still care for her, that you still have feelings for her, that you are still in love with her, that you haven't gotten bored with her, that you haven't met someone new, that you haven't reconnected with someone from the past, that you don't plan on leaving her, that you're happy being in a relationship with her, that you're satisfied with everything she does for you, that you can still see a future with her, that you would rather be with her than anyone else, that she's more beautiful to you than any other girl out there, that she still matters to you, that you're pleased with the way she treats you, that you trust her & have no suspicions, that you'll be with her forever. But don't tell her these things if you don't mean it. But if you do, then she would love to hear it here & there.

[24.] The longer the relationship lasts, the more you guys should love each other, not the other way around. But yet, some relationships last long & the people in them start to love each other less, or at least one of them starts to. Funny how things work, sometimes. It's like, you expect the relationship to get better as you guys continue to last & you would think that the love will grow, but sometimes, it's the opposite that happens & it dies out instead. It's like the longer you've been with each other, the better you should know each other but yet, you guys start arguing more & you start to see that you guys have more differences with each other. It's like the more time you spend with each other, the more fun you should have with each other but at times, you start wanting your space because you feel like it's starting to get a little boring. Funny how it is, sometimes, right?

[25.] I don't care what anybody says, but looks matter. Looks matter to an extent. Whoever told you "Looks don't matter", lied, because I'm pretty sure looks definitely matter in the beginning. Something from the outside has to pull you in because you can't just look at someone & be like "Damn, I like your personality, I wanna get to know you". It just doesn't work that way. Sure, in the long run, personality becomes the reason why you would stay with that person but in the beginning, it has to be something on the outside that catches your attention & then, whether your heart gets captured by this person or not is up to their personality. But the point is, looks do matter. Eventually, they won't matter anymore because they'll view you for you are on the inside, but at first, they got to be interested in how you present yourself on the outside first. A little shallow, maybe, but it's honest.

[26.] He isn't worth it. Why cry over him when he's out there smiling because of someone else? Why think about him when he's out there with another person occupying his mind? Why stress over him when he's out there with no worries about you? Why wait for him to hit you up when he's probably texting another girl at this moment? Why miss him when he's glad to be where he is with who he's right now? Why keep on trying to make things work with him when he's trying to chase someone else instead? Why keep showing him attention when his attention is on everything else but you? Why care about him when he doesn't even act like you matter to him? Why have feelings for him when he honestly feels nothing towards you? If you were worth it to him, he would fight for you. But does it even feel like you are? If not, then why are you still fighting? Stop fighting, & slowly start to let go.

[27.] If you really "loved" her like you said you did, you wouldn't already have a new girl not too long after you guys broke up or stopped talking. How is it that you've already moved on from her when she's still stuck on you? How is it that you've already stopped thinking about her when she can't seem to get you out of her head? How is it that you've already had another girl in your bed when she hasn't even been a date with another guy? How is it that you can already go a day without talking to her while she still checks her phone hoping to hear from you? How is it that you've already started calling another girl "babe" when she can't even let another guy flirt with her? How is that you've already told another girl you miss her when she still wishes she was next you? How is that you've told another girl you love her when she hasn't stopped loving you? Makes her question if you even really cared.

[A/N: Short! But give me feedback! (: ]