Relationships Advice

Key to my heart

[28.] You know what hurts for a girl? Finding out that her boyfriend has another girl. Finding out that he tells the other girl all the same things he tells her. Finding out that he's doing all these special things he did for her for the other girl too. Finding out that he would make the other girl the same promises he made her. Finding out that he brought over another girl to his house to lay where she lays. Finding out that he would call the other girl the same names he would call her. Finding out that she isn't the only girl he takes out on dates. Finding out that she isn't the only girl he buys gifts for. Finding out that she isn't the only girl he texts every day saying sweet things to. Finding out that she isn't the only girl that he hugs & kisses & gets personal with. Finding out that she isn't the only girl he tells that he loves. Why not just be with the other bitch then, right?

[29.] I remember back then, getting a girl to talk to you was something to be happy about, getting a girl's number was a big deal, getting to know a girl was a fun process, going on dates with a girl was something to look forward to, holding a girl's hand was a huge step & kissing a girl for the first time was something worth remembering. But nowadays, it's a little different, isn't it? Nowadays, it's more like "Damn, she's sexy as fuck, I wanna get it in with her" instead of "Wow, she's beautiful, I have to go up to her & say hi". It seems like all most guys care about is doing whatever it takes to get inside a girl's pants instead of doing whatever it takes to get inside a girl's heart. Some of these girls think that they have guys chasing them, but ask yourself; what is it that they're chasing, your heart or your pussy? & the sad thing is, some girls give it up so easily, that it makes those guys think it's alright.

[30.] Bro, being a good boyfriend to your girl isn't being "whipped". It's about putting her before yourself, being considerate of her feelings & be understanding of why she is the way she is at times. Yeah, your boys might make fun of you for it & call your soft, weak or whatever but that's just them being jealous of your relationship, being upset that they don't have someone like you do or being unable to have a good relationship with their girlfriends like you do. I mean, go ahead & be the man of the relationship & put your foot down when you need to, but being a man isn't being a controlling asshole or being a complete douchebag to your girl just because you don't want to feel "whipped" or have others call you "whipped". There isn't nothing wrong with respecting your girl & giving in to her & putting her feelings first because if she's worth it, you wouldn't care about what anybody else thinks.

[31.] What part of "Sorry but I already have a boyfriend" don't you niggas understand? What part of "Sorry but I already have a girlfriend" don't you bitches understand? If you can see that someone is already in an relationship, then you should stop trying, not keep on trying. Don't be a homewrecker because one, that shit isn't cool. Two, that shit makes you look thirsty. Three, that shit is gonna cause a lot of drama. Have some respect for people that are taken & have some respect for the people they're with. Why don't you go to & try to get with someone who's actually single? Is it because you like a challenge? Is it because you like to be able to say you took someone away from someone? Is it because you enjoy ruining relationships because you're really selfish? Whatever the reason is, just stop. Pretty sure if it were you, you wouldn't like it either.

[32.] It sucks for her because she gets along with guys better but most of her guy friends end up catching feelings for her & end up falling for her & she never feels the same way towards them & they get upset when they find out that there is a guy that she likes & they start acting jealous & it all leads up to the friendship being over because they can't handle being just friends. Like, it isn't her fault that she doesn't like you the way you want her to. You can't force that upon anybody. Does she feel bad for hurting you? Hell yeah, how can she not when you're constantly guilt tripping her? Should she have to feel that way? No because if you were a real friend & actually cared about her like you say you do, you would want her to be happy & want what's best for her, even if it isn't you. Some guys don't understand & irrationally end a great friendship that she cherishes.

[33.] A guy can sleep around with as many girls as he wants to & gets props for it, while a girl sleeps with a lot of guys & gets labeled as a slut or a hoe.

A guy can move on to a new girl right after a relationship & gets called a pimp, while a girl moves on to a new guy right away & gets labeled as a heartless person.

A guy can cheat on a girl & people would understand because men have needs, while a girl cheats on a guy & people would view her as a such a fucked up person. A guy can be an asshole towards his girl & people say that's just him being a guy, while a girl acts like a bitch & no one wants to be friends with her.

[34.] Erasing your text messages won't help her forget all the sweet things you used to tell her. Deleting you off her social networks won't help her forget how to look you up & see what you've been up to. Ignoring you won't help her forget how much you guys used to talk & how close you guys once were. Avoiding you won't help her forget how she loved being around you & how much she enjoyed spending time with you. Talking to new guys won't help her forget how it was like when she first got to know you & how exciting it was. Being far away from you won't help her forget what it felt like to miss you so much. Replacing you won't make her forget all the memories & experiences she shared with you.

[35.] You want to look at her phone? Go ahead, you can have the password & look through anything you're suspicious about because she has nothing to hide. You want to ask her friends about her past? Go ahead, you can know what happened with her back then because she has nothing to regret. You want to tell her you don't want her to go somewhere because you're uncomfortable with it? Go ahead, you can let her know & she'll respect that because she has nothing to miss out on if you're not gonna be there with her. You want to check up on her while she's out somewhere? Go ahead, you can call & text as much as you want because she has no problem letting you know what she's doing. You want her to stop talking to a guy you don't like? Go ahead, you can be honest with her & tell her because she has no worries if he'll get mad or not, as long as you're happy.

[36.] Did you know that she doesn't really have anyone else to be there for her because she put you before everyone else? Did you know that she would lie to her own friends & make an excuse why she can't see them because she'd rather see you? Did you know that she lost a lot of her guy friends because she told them she couldn't talk to them like that anymore out of respect for you? Did you know that she would tell guys who try to hit on her to fuck off or simply ignore them because she believes you would do the same for her? Did you know thst she would spend so much time trying to look good for you just to hear you tell her she's beautiful but you don't? Did you know that despite how it hurts to be with you at times, she doesn't want to give up on you because she knows you can be a good man? Start being better towards her because you really don't know how good you got it.

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