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[151.]She doesn't mind if her boyfriend has other female friends, as long as they know he has a girlfriend and respect his relationship, and as long as he knows he's taken so he shouldn't be doing anything he wouldn't want his girl to do. But if another girl were to come along and happens to like him and he happens to start liking her as well, then she can have him because she isn't the kind of girl to compete with another girl over a guy. She wouldn't want to be with a girl who gets distracted by another girl and loses feelings easily and ends up not knowing what he wants. She wouldn't want to fight for a guy who would put her in a position where she has to fight for him to prove that she's the better girl for him than the other girl is, that's just something he should decide for himself. So go ahead and have your female friends, but if you start liking one of them, don't expect her to compete for you.

[152.] She sees how her stomach looks when she's standing in her bra. She sees how her face looks without any make up on. She sees how her chin looks when she looks down at her reflection. She sees how her arms sag when she has them up. She sees how her thighs jiggle when she walks or runs. She sees how her boobs look when she's wearing a top. She sees how her acne looks when she washes her face. She sees how her legs look when she looks at all of her scars. She sees how her hair looks when she wakes up in the morning. She sees how her wrinkles show when she smiles. She sees how her stretch marks are visable when she sits down. See, the thing about girls, they can see every little detail about themselves, details that other people can't see and they see every little flaw that other people don't even notice. So when a girl doesn't accept your compliments about her being beautiful, it's honestly because she feels like she isn't and she'd be lying if she said she was.

[153.] She's not jealous of that other girl. She's not even scared to lose you to that other girl. It's not even about her being over-protective of you. It's definitely not about that other girl making her feel insecure about herself. It is simply just about her feeling disrespected by that other girl, and embarassed by you. That other girl should know that you have a girlfriend and despite knowing that, she still texts you a lot and asks you to chill and flirts with you here and there and the worst part about that is, you don't say anything about it which makes her feel like you don't mind and it's okay for her to be like that towards you. She feels disrespected by that. She also feels embarassed by you because she has a boyfriend who lets other girls talk to him like he's single and she's the girl whom all these other people look at and say "If only she knew". So because of you, she looks like a fool.

[154.] Niggas can do a girl wrong over and over again and that girl will still stick by his side. But when a girl does ONE thing wrong, niggas leave instantly. Niggas can flirt with other girls and after they get caught by their girls, that girls would let it slide. But when a girl flirts with other niggas and get caught, niggas will hold it against their girls forever. Niggas can cheat on their girls and after their girls find out, they would find it their hearts to forgive them. But when a girl cheats and niggas find out, niggas will tell everybody that their girls are nasty sluts/whores. Niggas can move on and get a new girl and their old girls would still be trying to win them back. But when a girl moves and get a new man, niggas would be like "have fun with my leftovers". Niggas can treat their girls like shit and their girls would still love them. But when girls treat guys like shit, niggas would be like "fuck this bitch, I'm done".

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