Relationships Advice

Cant Raise A Man

[119.] What happened to the days where guys would ask girls "What's your number?" Because now it's more like "What's your instagram". What happened to the days where guys would actually take girls out on a date to a dinner & a movie? Because now it's more like staying home watching Netflix with fast food all the time. What happened to the days where a guy would tell a girl how he feels to her face? Because now it's more like a guy telling a girl how he feels through subliminal statuses, tweets, blogs, song lyrics etc. What happened to the days where a guy would be excited to hug a girl for awhile or hold her hand for the first time or that first kiss he has with her? Because now it's more like the guy wanting to skip all the little things & get straight to the sex. What happened to the days where guys would ask girls to be their girlfriends? Because now it's more like "Let's be friends... but with benefits. Don't need to put a label on it".

[120.] After a break up;

For girls: hates the guy, goes online & shares how horrible she feels & how much of an asshole that guy is, cries over the guy, tries to talk to him, tries to see him, argues with him over the same reason they broke up in the first place, misses him, tries to resist the urge to text him or check up on him, slowly starts moving on, finally moved on.

For guys: completely moved on from her. Starts partying with his friends. Ignores the messages & calls from her. Meets new girls. Continues partying. Continues ignoring all of her attempts to contact him. Starts thinking back about his relationship with her. Starts missing having her there with him when he sleeps at night. Starts missing her. Regrets not trying to make things work with her.

[121.] Oh, now you wanna try & work things out with her? Why didn't you want to work things out with her before while she still wanted to? Why didn't you want to talk to her when she tried so hard to talk to you? Why didn't you want to see her when she tried to make time for you? What's different now? The fact that she finally stopped asking to talk? The fact that she finally stopped asking to see you? The fact that she finally stopped hitting you up? Maybe it's the fact that she found someone else & you can't stand seeing her happy, huh? You should have realized how you felt about her while she was still there waiting & waiting for you, but a girl can't wait around forever. Don't try to pull her back in now when you had the chance to during all of that time she still felt something for you. You wanted her to leave you alone & now that she finally has, you changed your mind & want her back? It doesn't work that way.

[122.] You're tired of her, bro? You're tired of her texting you all day? You're tired of her wanting to talk to you all the time? You're tired of her taking up all of your time? You're tired of always spending time with her? You're tired of all of the attention she spoils you with? You're tired of all of the effort she puts into you? You're tired of all of the energy she invests in you? You're tired of her making time for you? You're tired of her treating you good? You're tired of her worrying too much about you? You're tired of her putting you first? You're tired of her being loyal to you? You're tired of her giving you everything you deserve? You're tired of dealing with her jealousy due to her being afraid to lose you? You're tired of arguing with her over things that bother her? Alright, bro. Go ahead. Be tired. But just know this, once she's gone, then she's gone. She won't be coming back if she leaves.

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