How To Be A Baddie

Boys boys boys

Welcome back to 'How to be a Baddie'. Yes this is an actual chapter btw.

So as a baddie, you're gonna get hit on. You're gonna have boys up in your inbox. Okay, its natural. Its happens.

But here's the problem with that.

Some are fuckboi's.

Do I really need to explain? Yes? *sigh* yeah I thought so.

So players are guys that are basically tryna get nudes or wiggle in your pants. It's honestly pretty pathetic, that guys scoop to that level.

This means

NO SENDING NUDES.

I can't elaborate on this enough. Unless you're in a year long relationship and beyond, I dont recommend sending nudes. Why? It's loads and loads of trouble. People screenshot your stuff, and all of a sudden everyone knows about the strange birthmark you have on your inner thigh and so forth.

I get that you're bound to fall in love/date somebody. But dont make them the center of your life. This will probably cause people to raise some eyebrows, but hear me out.

Everyone deserves to be their independent person, especially us females. We go through so much just being girls, that we shouldn't have this guy being the center of us world.

Y'all know that even I have crushes. (Haha my last story time). And having crushes is normal. But don't change for this guy.

For example. If he says he doesn't like the way you talk. Don't change the way you talk just to please him. if a guy is really down for you, he's gonna show it, and take you as you are.

I wish I could tell you all the ways to get the guy you want, but honestly, I'm just sharing what I've seen/experienced. And you gotta be careful on who you date. By this I mean, try to get one of your home girls to do a back ground check before you jump in that relationship.

I know it seems extra, but trust me, its REALLY worth it.

now I had someone ask me about this in pm, (which is totally okay btw) and they asked about sex.

Guys.

WE'RE JUST TEENAGERS.

Lemme say it a lil louder for the kids in the back.

We're just teenagers

I know, I know what you're thinking.

"Are you saying to stay pure!1!1!"

"Its my body!1!1!"

Yeah, you're right. It is your body. But if you're reading this you came here for my advice. Or my witty storytimes. *hair flip* 😂

And do you know how many teen pregnancies I hear about? I could probably name five people off the top of my head that are going to get pregnant or mess around with guys this upcoming year.

"You're so negative!1!1!"

No, I'm real. Let's face it. We all know that one female that messes with everybody and has no respect for herself. Nevertheless her body.

Your literal goal is to be anyone but that girl.

"What about condoms?"

*snort* if you can find a guy that will have sex with you and use a condom, something is up. From what I've heard it apparently works better without one?

But here's the trick thing about condoms and such.

People holes in them.

I don't even think I need to explain why that's a problem.

"The guy I wanna mess with doesn't have a disease!1!1!"

How do you know that? Like are you 101% sure? Or is he just telling you that? Herpes, STD's, & all of that other stuff aren't just myths you see in magazines. I can literally name two guys off of the top of my head that have those sexual diseases. Because it is THAT real.

"I'm on birth control!1!1!"

*slowly claps* but do you REALLY wanna have sex with this guy? Okay let's be realistic. We'll all probably lose our v card before we're married, and I'm going to be realistic about this. I understand that us teens get horny. Cause ya know, our hormones are like 'WHAAAAA'. But that doesn't mean that we can screw around with just anybody. You want my recommendation? Fine. Wait until you're in a relationship that last at least a year. 

I have a friend that's in a 11 month relationship, and she still has her v card. Come on ladies. With a Lil bit of common sense and respect for yourself, it isnt hard.

Yo, honestly I'm expecting a bunch of controversy over this chapter. & I'm okay with hearing y'alls opinions about this kind of stuff. approach it in an appropriate matter, and I dont mind replying.

Till next time.

Xx