How To Be A Baddie

Relationship Advice/Break up advice

*nervously bites nails*

Okay here we go.

Relationships are something that's always thrown up in the air once you hit high school.

From the second you walk in those doors, everyone is dating somebody. Like, they'll know each other for a day then be together for like five months. Crazy, right?

Yeah, don't be one of those type of people first off all.

Secondly, in this day in generation. Before two people decide to date, they "talk". Talking is basically discussing how the other one will handle the relationship, the maturity level of each of you, and a lot of flirting to see if you're as interested in the person as you think you are.

I would strongly recommend you do that before you just jump into a relationship with someone.

Remember, the goal here is for the both of you to benefit each other.

You wanna be able to grow with one another and be able to support each other.

Dating isn't supposed to be about being childish and cheating, etc. Never date someone with those kind of morals.

*time skip*

Congrats, you just got yourself into a relationship. Now what?

Start it off simple. Walk each other to the others classes. FaceTime,call, and text a lot. Then, when both of you are ready, take it up a step.

Relationships are all about climbing a ladder with somebody. You wanna be able to experience new things with them, and hopelessly fall in love with them. (Which takes time lmfao)

Example of some things you and your new lover could do:

-dress up for spirit week together
-go on dates (doesn't have to be fancy. Go to McDonald's)
-stop by a library
-study together
-go to the mall together
-eat with one another at lunch
-go to football games together
-take a drive and just go ride around
-bust up in a store and buy a bunch of food

There's several other things you can do, but we needa change the topic with another time skip.

Now let's say you and your partner have hit a bad place in your relationship. Let's say you two are arguing a lot.

There's only one true solution for that.

And that's communication. Talk to one another. Discuss how you feel, why you feel it, and ask how they feel. Believe it or not, this actually works and will keep a relationship thriving.

Now let's talk about the dark side of arguments and relationships. You two are going go to fight. It's normal.

However, some things aren't. Never accept a guy that cheats on you. Never ever. That's a big no no and you are basically stamping an L on your forehead.

Guys who cheat clearly don't value females for who they are, and they don't deserve to have unconditional love and support from someone they can't stay loyal two.

Oh no. You and lover boy broke up.

First things first. Don't get back together with him. Okay okay fine. I'll be realistic. Your limit is one. One time, you can get back together with him. Not two, three, four, or five. But once. Because maybe it was just a really bad argument and words were exchanged that shouldn't have been.

But don't get back with a cheater, emotion/psychical abuser, or just a straight up jackass.

If you're going through a bad break up, I'd lean on your friends. Lean on your girl best friend and guy best friend, and whoever is in your friend group. Make sure you're mentally stable within yourself before you go and do anything else. Your mental health is the most important thing through out relationships and breakups.

Things to do when you're going through a break up:

-go get ice cream with your ladies
-burn all the pictures of him
-delete his number
-delete the pictures of him
-remove him off of your social media
-don't talk to him
-don't be his friend
-wear sweatpants or joggers and big hoodies to keep yourself comfortable
-binge watch YouTube or a Netflix series
-have long phone calls/FaceTiming calls with your friends

Any questions or comments ? Drop em below. I think I covered everything. Anything, see you guys in the next chapter