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Me, stalking dio and this dude's convo , holy fucking shit man. I can't really comment there, not because he muted me but because I know it's their fight so the only thing I could do is watch and rant. I'm learning a lot of things actually in their conversation, I learned that revenge is stupid, well it depends, sometimes it isn't, sometimes it's not. But that's them, as long as dio don't do or say anything stupid or get hurt, they can do whatever the fuck they want.
But let's talk about limits. When you're feeling something such as happiness, sadness, jealousy, horniness, there's always limits. Even depression have that and sometimes when they come to their limits, they do something bad. I can't really talk about happiness and sadness, I haven't figured that out yet, it will probably take years for me to know it, that's like the basic emotions that people feels, most of the time but my emotions are fucked up, how can I be psychiatrist if I can't even feel those two main emotions . But anyways, so jealousy, we all experience that, all human beings feels that. For me, my limit is only on 20 or something . Why? It's because I do not have right to be jealous. If you're in a relationship with someone, your limit could be higher than that, because first of all, you have right to be jealous but if you're getting jealous over their cousin, best friend, friend, family then you gotta swallow a damn chill pill. Trust your partner. Don't make someone jealous just because you got their ex. That doesn't make you better than them. That just means the person and your girl now is not right for each other.
If you don't have right, please control your jealousy, they will just get mad at you if you are acting like their boyfriend even though you're not. Most people feel those when you like someone or you want their attention, but let me just remind you that. You are just a friend and you can't be jealous all the time. If you are always possessive, then you better start changing that now, that might cause some problems in the future such as your relationship. It's not good to be possessive and always jealous to your partner. You don't want to choke them. You don't want to feel them not safe around you, don't make them feel that if they talk to a guy, they will remember on the back of their head that their boyfriend is going to be mad.
They have rights, you have rights too. But if it's going too far then I don't think your partner will stay with you for a long time. Jealousy is a shitty feeling that you have to endure until you die. It's always here, it's always going to bug the fuck out of you, it's always going to be here and you can't do anything about it. The only thing you could do is to control it.
Relationships are supposed to be fair. You give attention for each other, you give them love, they give love back to you. If they are happy then you should be too. If you're sad, they will be sad because you're suffering. Respect them. Don't abuse them, everyone doesn't have right to abuse people. Not even their parents. You can't call one sided love a relationship. You go into this door called relationship so you will experience how to feel love by other person, not just a love from your family . They want love not a fucking handcuffs. If they're into it, cool. If they're not, better respect their decision. It's funny how you love them but you don't respect their decision if they want to break up with you.
There's so many things wrong with relationships nowadays, but no one is perfect. Just because you give a lot of love to this person doesn't mean they will do that too. Relationships are not supposed to be perfect anyway, that's why it's scary. But it's fucked up like us, people in this world. So better try it out, right? You don't want to be alone, I know that. Everybody needs someone to be with them forever. No one wants to feel alone. No one wants to daydream forever. Yeah, sometimes you want to feel alone but you don't want to turn around and see nothing behind you, right?
Just like Bob Ross said, " everyone needs a friend "
