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How many times do I have to say this? I am not going to update on this matter anymore. This blog is a drama free zone as of weeks ago. I'm tired of having to stress this, okay?
I don't care what these girls are up to now. I don't care who they are or are not dating. I don't care if you guys think that Hayden is in the hospital for attention. I don't care Taelyn might or might not have cheated on Shiloh. I don't care that Marco and Macha are together and were seen having sex in the back of his car. I don't care that Kasey and Alfonso are trying their relationship again.
None of it. I honestly don't care anymore. My finals and EOCs are coming up in a few days. I'm sure most of you reading this have tests you need to study for, homework that is due tomorrow, and presentations that you need to memorize. Stop worrying so much about the little things. Stop liking Blonde Ivory and Firelight Moon if the only thing you're interested in is who they're dating or having sex with.
That's not what being fans is about. It's about letting these people live their dreams by playing music that WE LIKE. It's not about getting jealous about who they ate dinner with and then sending that person death threats or tweeting at them that they need to "treat them well". Leave them alone. Stay out of their personal lives. Let them have privacy. Let them be free to like who they like and fuck who they want to fuck.
Let them make mistakes and learn from them. Let's stop this stupid, dumb ass Cancel culture on twitter. Okay, cool, Connor was homophobic when he was fourteen. Who gives a fuck? I was homophobic when I was fourteen, and now I'm the biggest faggot there is. Alfonso said some questionable things about Asexuality a year ago after he and Kasey got into a fight? Who cares??? We all say dumb shit when we're angry. We all say shit that we know is going to get under the skin of that person we're mad at!
I call my mom a hoe when I'm pissed at her. Does that make her any less of a hoe when I'm not angry at her? Obviously not. I love her no matter how big of a hoe she is, just as she loves me no matter how big of a gay I am.
People change. We learn. We say stupid things when we're mad. We are only human. The important thing is that we learn to forgive and let people not get fucking slaughtered because of a dumb mistake.
That's so dumb. Do you guys really believe that Connor is only dating Hayden as a publicity stunt to prove he isn't homophobic? Do you really think that Alfonso and Kasey are dating each other again because she's going to come out with a real pregnancy publicity stunt?
I don't want to be harsh. I really don't want to be, but you hoes have got me all the way fucked up. You've got your hormones over these sexy musicians in the way of your brain waves. Here's the tea, sis. Those rumors make absolutely no fucking sense.
You guys need to grow up. Get your homework finished. Walk your dog. Feed your fish. Read your little sister a bed time story. Watch an episode of Sherlock. Then, you need to turn of your lights. Turn off your phone. Close your blinds. Go to sleep.
You guys need to take a break from all this unnecessary drama. Buy their album. That's it. That's all you should be doing. Maybe writing some risque gay fanfiction about Hayden and Macha or Alfonso and some random OC. You should not be making trivial topics like their dating lives your main priority as their fan.
As their fan, you should be supporting them. Sure, calling them out on things they've done wrong. Not canceling them. That's so dumb. Especially when it's extremely obvious that they've changed and they've learned.
I also hate when haters only come to this fandom to call Connor a racist and then leave after canceling him. Or canceling Alfonso for saying rude shit about Asexuality. Or canceling Hayden for using her depression as mental illness bait and milking it for attention. Or saying that Macha went to rehab to sexualize and romanticize alcoholism and addiction.
These haters didn't even take the time to justify these disgusting allegations. They didn't even take the time to evaluate if the boys have changed since those tweets. They aren't the girls' therapist. They don't know what mental illness they have.
You people are out of your fucking minds. These are real people just like you and me. They make mistakes just like us. They say shit that they don't mean just like us. The only difference is they have a lot of snowflake, sensitive ass thirteen-year-olds watching their every move and listening to their every word waiting for them to fuck up so they can pounce on them.
"Fans" like this are disgusting. You guys are probably even way worse than the people you're canceling. If you could cancel every single celebrity and singer and author and songwriter and rapper and model who had EVER said ONE thing that was even a little bit problematic... There would be nobody left. The entire human race would be canceled.
I'm sure if you look back to one of the tweets or text messages that one of those fans who is canceling these singers, you would find at least one thing that offends at least one person in the world. That's not the way we should be. We shouldn't be so sensitive. We shouldn't be so eager to cancel and end the careers of other people.
Shit, honestly, is not that deep. You guys are pretending to drown in a mud puddle.
Cancel culture is canceled. So is obsessing over the lives of your favorite musician. Let people live. Let people make mistakes. The same way people around you have let you do the same.
I'm not writing about this anymore. Please leave me alone and stop DMing me. This topic honestly stresses me the hell out. Also my tests are going to kick my ass.
Good night, everyone!
-MEMMY
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