Uncertain Thoughts.

A NOTE

To those who are reading this,

I know this is pretty long and definitely will take some of your precious time but it's my kind request that you read it without any distractions. I promise you won't regret it. Also listen to Perfect colour Acoustic version by safetysuit :)

We live in a society where people judge what you do, what you wear, what you eat, what you like or dislike even how you speak or how funny on a scale of 1-10 your laugh is. People rate you for how you look not your behavior, numbers don't only matter on your mark sheet but your other "ratings" as well. We, you and I, live by making people feel miserable about themselves. knowingly or unknowingly we hurt people and their sentiments.

we don't know what a person is going through. there might be several other existing humans that go through the same thing but EVERYONE HAS A DIFFERENT WAY TO HANDLE THEIR PROBLEMS. how hard it is for you to understand that? STOP telling people "others have it worst than you do", "I've been through worst compared to you", "can't you just be happy for once?" , "you don't even try to find solutions for your problems" so on and so forth.

If you've been in an accident or had surgery done and people come and tell you "it was just a surgery, don't make a big deal about it or that it was just an accident don't think about it". Stop commenting on others or their situations if you don't know what it's like to have to go inside a machine and hear whirling sounds and have hot fluids flushed down your veins. Don't talk about it if you don't know what it feels like when the doctors have to prick you several times because your blood vessels are thin and they're unable to get blood out. Do you know what it feels like when you're in the operation theatre and you're given the anesthesia and the last thought you have is that you make it out alive because there is some much left to live?

Those comments we pass on people can damage them emotionally but we don't think about that or even talk about it because we think being COLD is COOL. If you think being cold or heartless is going to help you escape from getting hurt, let me tell you it doesn't work that way. We don't have any options that can avoid us from getting hurt but we do choose what can and cannot hurt us. not everyone's faking things, so before you say something or do something to anyone think about it. I mean bro, you tell me why the hell would anyone fake about being emotionally destroyed? What were you even thinking before passing such comments? YOU CANNOT TAKE YOUR WORDS BACK SO USE THEM WISELY.

If you know someone whos done something of this kind, send this to them and if you've done this- I just have one question for you. WHY DID YOU DO IT? Did the blood flowing down his/her wrist provide you with some sort of eternal satisfaction? Did the tears he/she shed pacify your thirst? do those scars on their wrists, thighs, stomach make you feel happy about yourself?

Judging others is easy and so is passing comments about them, what's hard is helping those who are suffering or going through a difficult phase. There are so many things that we could be good at but gave up because of those few people passing negative comments on those amazing talents and skills that we had. Instead of supporting others, we try to bring them down without any valid reason. Is it so hard for you to understand that you CAN NOT GET UP BY MAKING OTHERS FEEL TERRIBLE ABOUT THEMSELVES. You earn the trust and the love, even if you're rich as hell, money won't make your crush fall for you, even if you are popular, it won't help your parents understand you.

Remember everyone and everything has flaws within them. even the butterfly was a caterpillar first. If you think there are things or flaws that you need to point out, there is always a positive way to give your feedback so that the person doesn't feel bad about himself or herself and this is one of the most important attributes of communication.

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thankyou so much for reading and I hope you have a great day.

xoxo

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