Time and Perfection

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We all want to belong, we all want people who love us, even if they take us for granted. We crave for love so much, we stay oblivion of the fact that we deserve so much better.

 We don't really have a say in getting hurt in this word but we do have a say in who hurts us. We CHOSE to get hurt. We chose to get hurt for the temporary happiness we receive.

People change, they grow, they learn and they eventually leave. You know when you give so much to a person and that person treats you like an option,it hurts. you feel the pain drain out all your energy. Everyone's going to leave, all you have in the end is yourself. 

When your parents don't get you, they think you're just another annoying teenager going through "puberty". Piece by piece your heart shatters into a million pieces. When someone asks you how you are you say "I'm  fine" because the shit going on in your life is too complicated to explain. I GET IT. TRUST ME I KNOW.

Everyone has high expectations for you. They want you to be perfect, to be everything you can NEVER be. They are okay with you being anyone but yourself. All of us crave for perfection. 

We judge people when we don't even know their name. We judge them by their appearance, their body language, the way their lips curl up when they smile. We assume a lot.  Everyone is so occupied with judging others and correcting them, they forget to live their own life. 

Everybody is so busy hiding their flaws rather than embracing them.  So busy trying to be "perfect". We fail to understand that FLAWS OUR WHAT MAKE US DIFFERENT!! If people were perfect what would make us different? What would make us unique in our own way? Ever thought about that? I bet you didn't. Embrace your flaws and don't let others opinion bother you. It's their job to judge but it's your duty to shine. Believe in yourself a little more and be happy. Find your happiness in little things, because little things matter the most.

You have one life so don't hold any unnecessary grudges, laugh all you want, smile a little too and kiss that person you are dying to be with. It's okay if you are not perfect because no one is. All you have is now, live your moments because tomorrow isn't promised so if you want something,go for it NOW. 


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