A real friend doesn't:
-Claim that you destroyed him/her
-Claim that you are making both text and photo publications/posts against him/her -Accuse you for things you didn't do but were done by others, even by him/her
-Accuse you for their toxicity/narcissism
-Want to make you suffer
-Want to see you failing in achieving your goals
-Want to see you failing in following your dreams
-Want you to become what you don't wanna become
-Force you to change so you can be likeable and accepted but instead waits for the time you're ready to change (to a better state and not into a worse one)
-Call you names for his/her own happiness and defence such as obsessive, immature, retard (in the insulting meaning), psycho ect.
-Try to hide behind lies and nonsensical excuses in attempt to defend himself/herself for his/her actions
-Follow stereotypes of our community in attempt to be accepted so none can say anything insulting about them
-Call you or the rest of your companies monsters and that you all have to burn in hell and that he's/she's a victim here -Make you feel bad about yourself
-Make you feel scared
-Make you lose trust in people and make you stick into the past because of trust issues
-Want to abuse you
-Make sure you're alone -Threat you in any shape or form when it comes to speak about your pain
-Treat you like trash/garbage -Insult you about your sexuality
-Call you a liar/Accuse you of lying
-Claim that you'll do the same stupid traits like people in our community did
-Take advantage of you so he/she can fulfil their enjoyment -Bully you -Need you when he/she is in the need of something
-Talk shit behind your back or in front of your face
-Make fun of you and your feelings -Make fun of you because of having less money than he/she does
-Put words into peoples heads in attempt to turn them.against you
-Obsess over witch hunting you
-Obsess over having something to accuse you for
-Make a fool of you in attempt to betray you
-Make fun of your insecurities
-Use you so he/she cannot be alone while looking for someone better or perfect for him/her -Support toxic traits
-Support violent traits
-Support toxic/narcissistic people
-Ask people to turn against you -Do anything to tear you apart/break you to pieces
-Make fun of your failures
-Make fun of your mental breakdowns
-Disrespect you
-Push you away
-Spread lies about you
-Spread in public what you exchanged with him/her in your private chats
-Call you and your private conversations freaky
-Make you lose love upon whatever you love
-Fill you with guilt
-Make you feel worthless
-Throw you out
-Keep you out of whatever wonderful thing they do
-Ask for respect and trust violently
-Make you pay for his/her own mess
-Plan to destroy you in any shape or form of violence and toxicity to push you out of his/her life right behind your back
-Act that you never existed or that you died
-Present you as a monster he/she created in his/her mind
-Accuse you for their misery and immaturity
-Allow anyone destroy you for his/her own selfish purposes in any shape or form of violence and toxicity
-Make you feel like you have no place in this world
-Make you feel that you're not enough
-Make you hate yourself -Fill you with anger
-Make you feel like the world would be better without you
-Do whatever it takes to present you as the "bad guy" of the story
-Accuse you for things that are not making any sense since they're not even true -Make you lose confidence in yourself
-Make you feel ashamed of his/her terrible actions
-Make you feel like you're not good enough
-Play with you or the people around you as if you're all his/her toys
-See your achievements and goals as a revenge against them
-Pull you back into the past when you're making a step forward
And the list goes on....
We only have one life.... Sadly or not.... It's time to stop living with huge pains because of toxic and violent traits..... It's 2020 still and we all should have stopped these traits from spreading around about a long time ago.... In case any person feels suicidal about plenty of pains, even about erotic relationship, you can always search up for support and help which is about preventing people from suicide.
It's no need to read the whole list, read and keep in mind whatever you feel like keeping in mind but trust me, if you have suicidal thoughts, even without depression, you're not alone.
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