So what's the problem, because we wouldn't be eating out all through this dating period or getting to know period" He told her.
" It is called courtship, and our small one, because we are going to also carry out church courtship. And Mr man you are not supposed to be giving me a kiss right now, we are not married" She said.
" We are already married in my head. And how many courtship can you do. Dating is also getting to know each, it is not suppose to involve sex, it's just that things have changed. In these days when you are dating , you don't sleep together. When sex gets involved, it because a pre-marital relationship. A sexual relationship outside marriage. But these days things have changed and God will help us all" He explained, "Sometimes you are too rigid" He commented.
" I don't have a rigid behaviour, just principle. Everyone has his or her principle and believes; this is mine. Just like you are free to keep your opinions and believes , so do I. We human beings are free thinkers. As long as I don't force my believes on you, I am free to believe what I believe in, and I believe in God. If you decide to believe later on , it is your choice. I can tell you about my believes, but I can't force it on you, God has given us free will, the will to choose between good and evil. And everything we do on earth that is within our control is by choice. Yes we can't choose which country, which family we are born into, but we can choose to follow the right part and stand by it, not matter what and no matter what people may say or do" She concluded.
" That's true, I'm sorry for Calling you rigid" He apologized.
"Apology accepted" She said to him.
"But you like talking shall, as if there is a book in your head" He jokes smiling, " Professor Amara"He called her native nickname.
"I will take that as a compliment"She told him, " And who told you my native name" She asked, surprised that he knew that her Ukwani name was Amarachi, which in short is Amara.
"No one" He lied.
"Kevwe did right?" She asked, " Although I'm wondering when she got the time to tell you" She added.
"Forget about how I knew and give me the answer to the question I actually asked you, motivational speaker"He said lightheartedly.
' Well the truth is that, all your previous visits and behavior leads me to believe that we will never living or go out, if I let you in" She told him honestly.
" I'm I that bad?"He asked shocked at her accusations, which was what it was to him.
" Yes you are, especially as you and Kevwe have become close friends. If I let you in, by the time you two finish your discussion, time would have gone" She told him.
" Are you jealous or you just like spending my money?" He taunted.
" Of course not!" He exclaimed, shocked at his accusation and line of thought, "Me jealous , never . I trust you and I trust my friend and you both know is you break my trust we are done with each. So I am not jealous and for your money,I have my own money and I am working woman. If you want me to foot the bill and spend on you , just tell me or rather I will just be delivering the food to your house" She said annoyed.
" So that you will say I bankedrupted your business" He answered annoyed too, by her manner of speaking to him.
"We always share the cost. So stop talking as if you are the one that foot all our bills, when we go out" She defended.
" But I would if you just let me" He complained, " You always want to carry the burden for others. Don't you want someone to also feel happy in making you happy just like you make others. And that will mean the world to me. Sometimes allow someone to shoulder things for you, you don't have to be tough in front if me and also not in front of those who loves you. We love you for who you are, you have nothing to prove to us again, just only that you love us . And we already see it in everything you do already.
Sometimes my love, everyone needs someone on their side to show them that they matter and I am here for you. So allow me take care of. Let me spend my money on you. You are already enough, even in the money department. But let me also spoil you with my love, just as I want to" He advised her.
" And I would never drain your pocket" She confessed sadly, almost in tears.
" So you do care" Dennis grinned, as he gave her a bear hug; looking at her eyes
" Think whatever"She said blushing shyly, removing her eyes from his.and pushing away playfully, " You are invading my personal space again" She told him jokily.
"I will continue to and when we finally get married I will even invade your personal space more. I will cling to you like a glue and a permanate tattoo" He told romantically, with all seriousness.
" That time it is your right and mine. But I will cut of your legs if you ever cheat on me and the legs of anyone else who dares take you away from me, or even drag you with me" She warns him darkly.
" Wow, my wifey is not playing. So you are the jealous type and also have a dark side. Okay, noted " He agreed, "But I will never cheat on you. I am all yours and you are all mine, and what God has joined together which will be soon, and he has ordained; let no man put asunder" He added
" You better, you should even
write it down. No one comes close , I mean other ladies or anyone else who want to take you way from me, when we get married you are mine and mine alone romantically" She said
" You mean sexually, my love?" He asked with a grin, drawing closer to her, " And I'm yours alone even now" He added reassuringly
"That too" She agreed looking at the ground and anywhere but His eyes shyly, " Me too" She agreed
" Then if that's the only way I belong to you, I want you to know I have a dark side too, because of you"He told her.
" What's it?" She asked a little afraid.
" Don't fright , my love"He reassured her
"You said you had a dark side and I shouldn't fright, Why wouldn't h
I?"She Asked.
"It is not an evil or spiritual dark side"He replied, " Or should I call it a bad good side"He added.
" So how and what kind of
dark are we talking about?" She asked, " Do and spill your secrets oh great one"She jokes
" Jealousy dark, I will completely a nah I late any one or any thing that tries to take you away for me" He confessed, " I will Crimple the person, just for looking at my Queen" He threatened like a villain, " And I'm not being funny, I am extremely serious. No one touches you, but me. And like wise I promise no one touches me , but you. You have my word and my heart. No one takes what's mine . You and I belong together, my love. Hope you know that?" He said and asked
"That's not dark to me. Love is jealous, forget about what they say about it not being. But as long as it does not hurt us and others, And it doesn't turn to obsession"She told him, " To me if you are okay with me being with other guys, that means you don't love me. So you being a little bit jealous of your sex giving and wanting my attention is okay. But as long as I also have the right to also a little possessive of you too , but not obsessional possessive, no problem" She added
" Not a little bit , but big time jealous and like you said not an unhealthy obsession" He told her.
" Okay"She reply, " I am big time jealous too" She added, blushing.
"That's my girl"He replied lovely.
" And you are my man, right?" She asked
"Of course I am, who else's would I be?"He asked.
" No one else's" She replied darkly, blinking her eyelashes.
" A little creepy, but I like it" He told her, " And yes, no one else's , my love. I am all yours as you are all mine, I agree" He added, as he pecked her on both of her cheeks, with a grin on his handsome face.
" I Agree too "She said, with blush.
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