november 5 2024
i dont know if everyone saw this movie of kathryn and daniel padilla where they contradicted that when youre in love everything just fast forwards but in my case, when i met my man, my chaotic world suddenly just slows down.
before, i was always getting up early and my heart pumps so fast out of nervousness that i might get late of work.
another one, when im pressured about the messy surroundings, i became furious.
although i still have those sometimes but i got to realized it wasnt the old Me who always freaks out. i make everything calm and slow.
he changed the way i see the world. im a woman with 'time is gold' attitude but now, im the most precious gold and he does not want me freaking out because of time. freaking out and then suddenly someone's got angry on the way you acted makes you only acted more than worst.
i discovered it from my pasts or exes. usually when i freak out, they became furious too and suddenly will feel pressured and will, most of the time, ask me to just "SHUT UP!"
and every boyfriend who passes in my life who acted like that, it just gets and gets and gets worst. from a freak out in the first boyfriend, to a crazy woman to the next boyfriend, to a mad woman to the third boyfriend... it gets worst.
but when i met my man, i was angry and he shuts up. i was mad and he calms me down. i was crazy and he listens to me. i was freaking out and he is supporting me.
From a woman with developed anger issues to a woman who listens when the boyfriend talks.
from a woman who is independent to a woman who cries.
does this means that a woman can be controlled by a man who understands her?
is the cure from a mad woman is just patience?
if so, i hope that many husbands or your partners got to learn this from my man.
You don't need to shut her mouth, you just need to listen and let her slowly stop. that way, you can be a man who will make her learn to control herself without shouting at her nor doing so more violent reaction towards her.
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