Me

And I have a problem with that

My mom is giving me a lecture on having kids and pregnancy and I'm just over here like

I'm a teen, I don't want kids

I may never want kids or get married so why do we were to have this talk and even if I do end up wanting these things we can have this talk then

My mom said "even if you have kids at a young age" but she also expects me to stay a virgin until marriage

She also said "when you decide to have kids" like I'm definitely going to have them and like she expects me to have them

Constantly tells me to become a lawyer professor instead of a lawyer like I want to be so I can have more time to raise my future kids and be there for my husband, which she knows I don't want to think

So basically she's trying to set up my future for me after saying I can do whatever I want to me repeatedly, but is actually saying "you can do whatever you want, but it has to fit my guidelines I've carefully set out for you or else you won't succeed or have a fulfilling life in any way and you will bring shame on our name, house, and cow" and I have a problem with that