Dangerously in Love

Soulmate

A couple of days later, they able to talk about some questions that might be arising. She starts to Google 'Deep Things to Ask Your Boyfriend.' and searched and select through of some questions that she can ask him but then he started first and asked her, "What's your greatest fear?" 

She responded, "Losing my dad / my parents (touchwood). I'm very close to my dad. I also don't like snakes. What about you? It's raining here in Bogor, and this game of getting to know you seems fun and what's your idea of a perfect date? " 

He answered, "My greatest fear is ending up with the wrong person in life." 

She then asked him to elaborate, "Can you tell me more about this?" 

He explained, "That's the stage that I am no in life. Settling down. And I know ending up with the wrong person would be one of the greatest fear that I got. I have so many people that claim they love me but at the same time, I found out that it's because of what they tend to gain from me and it hurts." 

She agrees with him, "I understand the feeling." 

He then added, "So I really look forward to finding someone that would love me for who I am and not for what they tend to gain from me and it seems I have found that one person in you. Someone that has loved me for who I am. Somebody that I could connect with. Body, mind, and soul. I feel complete with you."  

She responded, "Aww baby...I feel the same way. Do you know that I don't like men with beards? But with you it's different? I fell in love with you personally." 

She asked him, "Why is that?" 

He then explained to her, "I mean special. So back to your question." 

She replied, "Yeah, what's your idea of the perfect first date?" 

He responded, "I won't rush anything. I guess everything would be just the way my date wants it. Left for me, I would want to host my date at my house. I would do the cooking my self. I would do the table setting my self and then invite her over."

She replied, "That's really cool." and asked him another question that she has picked from her Google search, "What's your definition of a perfect relationship?" 

He answered, "When there is full understanding from both sides. When there's trust." 

She asked him again, "In your opinion, what's the best way to show love?" 

He responded, "I would say in your actions. In what you say. I guess if you really love someone, it would definitely show for itself. Whatever you do with the person. It would show. Love doesn't hide."

  She agrees with him and asked him, "Is there anything you want to tell me?" 

He banters, "You tell me. How you want your first date to be? And also answer your own question of 'what's the best way to show love? I want to know your opinion." 

She answered, "By getting to know each other. I like what you describe, we just talked and talked for hours and getting comfortable with each other. By trust, by nothing to hide, being able to just be my self and yourself without any pretending, by being silly to each other but also knowing that you love and care and wants to protect each other." 

He agrees with her and added, "Very true, so you see, we both know what we want and I guess we both made the right choice." 

She responded, "I'm very lucky to have found you." 

He replied, "Same here baby, and I'm fulfilled." 

She then asked him, "Do you believe in a soulmate?"

He responded, "Oh yes. I have found someone that I can truly say I love and I know we are both in love with each other."  He then asked her a question, "What exactly do you love about me?" 

She simply answered him, "You are the most thoughtful, romantic, kind person that I know. We haven't met yet but I know for sure you will treat me right. I never get treated right before. So when you come into my life is like you are fulfilling the dreams that I always wanted. You are a very private person but at the same time, you are not shy to show me what you are feeling about me. Like you are sensitive but also attentive at the same time which makes me fall for you. You are smart, a leader, and I really like those qualities about you. You love God too, so that's a plus for me. I wanna know about me too. What exactly do you love about me? " 

He's blushing, "That's one thing that I learnt from my dad. He never took my mum for granted, he treated her right so I'm sure that's the right thing to do." and added, "I could write a whole book on this." 

She laughs and added, "Just tell me a bit of snippet of the book then..."  

He replied, "I have never felt this way for a woman before. Even my ex. I feel so connected to you as if we have known for ages. You're someone that is down to earth that loves me for me that understands me perfectly. You're someone that I know that would stand for me even if there is nothing to gain out of it. You have loved me wholeheartedly and trusted me and this is something I really value in you. You are an independent woman that knows what she really wants and also work towards it. You're smart, you're beautiful, you're God-fearing... and above all, you're that one person I have been searching for and I'm glad, happy, and fulfilled to have you all to my self. I pray as this relationship has started, it would all end in praise. I leave everything for God. Because he is the only one that knows best. He's the one that has brought you to me." 

She's speechless and blushing. She responded, "I wanna say, we both know what we wanted and we both know that we belong to each other and I'm hoping for the best in this relationship. I really can't wait until I can hold you and meet you and kiss you and we talk for hours and hours."   

He replied, "That's all I'm craving for all the time. I'm really looking forward to." 

Selah.