Writing with a Purpose: Summer Edition

13. 6/13/15

Today I would like to talk about sex. Yes the crazy, three-letter word that manages to cause so much discussion.

Once I saw an interview with ASAP Rocky in which he says "I don't mean to sound so voguer, yeah it's a man's world but pussy makes the world go round. I shower everyday for women. I smell good for women. I get manicures for women." I probably didn't write it every word for word but that's what he said. It made me think about sex in general and how its seen.

For men, sex and having sex whether with one girl or multiple, is a sign of power. Sex makes you a man. Sex makes you appealing. Sex is one of the main goals of all men, whether they choose to admit it or not. On the other hand, a women having sex with even one partner, can be a risky endeavor. Women do not have the social acceptance to enjoy sex like men do. However, no matter what I say about sex, I will end up contradicting myself. That's just honesty.

I do believe that women should be able to have sex with who ever they want, however they want, and as much as they want but then again if I see a female who is "slutty," I will personally see her as one. A slut, that is.

ASAP Rocky basically says that although its a man's world. Everything he does, is inspired by the needs and wants of a women. He does what he does because that's what women like, and honestly all men should have that mentality. Many men should tend to women instead of wanting to be sadist-like and or cruel to women and their needs.

Sex is a connection. Whether you want it to be or not. That's why many people who start off as "Friends with Benefits" (as stupid as that is to me) tend to fall for one another because sex is just a way of connecting with another person. It's not only a physical connection, it's a mental and emotional way of connecting with another human being. Honestly it's amazing how god created a man and a women to fit within each other that way. It's beautiful. Naked bodies are beautiful. Sex is beautiful, especially when you're in love.

Sex with a random person and sex with someone you love are two way different things and you don't even have to have sex to know that.

Another thing I often wonder about those who decide to stay a virgin until marriage, or "abstinent," how are sure you will be physically attracted to this person? Let's say you finally marry someone, and on your honeymoon when he finally whips "it" out, what if its not to your liking? Because in reality, a marriage is based off love, faithfulness, some other thing, and sex. After a while with being that person and not having pleasurable sex, the marriage will begin to fall due to a lack of physical attraction. I don't know, maybe I'm thinking to logically when it comes to that, but that's just my opinion.

Anyway, I've rambled enough on my thoughts about Sex. It's time for me to finish "Orange is the new Black."

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