Forbidden Love

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* NOTE
- This is my personal beliefs combined with research, which means I've thought in-depth about possible love lives, and as always, I am heavily logical and realistic with this, as that's my way of thinking. 

Thought I'd do an entire chapter about this because I've heard of people who have a crush on a Creepypasta/Slenderverse figure (or say they're in love with one of them) say that for example Jeff The Killer is obsessed with them or that they're dating BEN drowned and I'm wondering if those people know that this is research/investigation, not a damn dating site or something.

inspiration: Random girl my friend is talking to that has been telling her things like 'he cheated on me with you' 'hes obsessed with me' etc. (i am deadass...☠️)


LOVELY EMOTIONS : UNDERSTANDING IT
What happens when you're falling in love?

The initial happy feelings of being in love is stimulated by 3 chemicals in the brain:
 Noradrenaline that stimulates adrenaline production causing that racing heart and sweaty palms; Dopamine, the feel-good chemical; and Phenylethylamine that is released when we're near our crush, giving us butterflies in our tummies.

Empathy plays a role in the type of things you're interested in.
Research indicates that people with a higher sensation-seeking trait and those who are more open to new experiences tend to seek out and enjoy horror-related experiences more. Additionally, if you have more empathy, you tend to react more negatively to what happens in horror shows.

Which if you combine those two, you can pretty much guess that you're bound to fall inlove with one of em. (not everyone dw)

But you don't really know anything about them so how can you have romantic feelings for them? You've only researched facts and that kind of stuff, you haven't personally talked to them, and your way of 'spending time' with whatever you  believe is obsessed with you, is them just harrassing you. (i.e. touching hair or taps and general symptoms of them)

You can't love someone, in a genuine way, just like that. You haven't formed any kind of connection with them because that requires both of you to engage and learn more about each other, DIRECTLY. NOT THRU SOME DAMN RESEARCH.
Don't listen to those stalker stories where they think they're dating and connected because they researched about them and bla bla that stuff.

DELUSIONS
''they're totally in love with me!''

So, you've come to a point where you think they're in love with you.
Why? because they're harrassing you or trying to, and you're taking it well instead of being uncomfortable.

You think that Jeff loves you because 'He LiKeS bROwn/BlAcK hAiReD GiRls WiTh BlOoDlUsT' like okay theres like a billion people who have bloodlust believe it or not. You are not special, not trying to be rude I'm just baffled someone is this level of delusional.

For any reason you may have, to think like this, trust me it is not true save yourself SAVE YOURSE-

DISSAPPOINTMENT
why you cannot and should not date them.

it's unrealistic. They're mostly busy (i think) with things such as harrassing people, killing people, stalking, that kind of stuff. 
I generally don't believe that they're just going out of their way for a random 12-year-old (and no, even if you're a teenager or an adult. don't get your hopes up habibi) that's fangirling out of her mind for them and swears to be in love with them.

''but they keep touching me romantically!!!''  that's not romantical. I don't even know in what way you could mean it, but trust me for the love of god it's not romantic. theyre just trying to harrass you like how they do with everyone.

''But they touched me where the sun dont shine!!!'' and??
AND???? They're tryna harass you just because they've shown sexual interest doesn't mean that they're suddenly madly in love with you and become Yuno Gasai. 

Platonic, Romantic, and Sexual feelings, are all VERY. DIFFERENT. FROM. EACH. OTHER.

Many times someone can just touch you innappropriately and not care about anything else. The world is fucked up and you gotta just live with it.

This side of wattpad, the start of researching/investigating them, is not to find a romantic partner. It's liteally to just research and investigate and share your experiences with them. You can't keep treating it like it's some sort of dating site and swear on your moms third leg that one of them is madly obsessed and in love with you.

''I heard that Jeff likes brown and black hair so thats why he-'' ???? Did he tell you personally?? Does this mean just cuz he likes those hair colors he's gonna fall madly in love with the first person he sees having those traits? NO. It doesn't matter what traits they like, it's incredibly unrealistic to think that they're just gonna fall in love with someone who shares one measly trait they happen to like. Let alone become obsessed with them.

And hearing them say things like 'you're mine' and shit, that's them mocking you, 9 times out of 10 it's just them messing with you, or on another possibility: You just attracted another demon/spirit and now that's taking the form of the Creepypasta/Slenderverse figure that you're head over heels for. 

In a scenario, where you manage to meet them, and they ask to date you, don't do that.
Are you sure it's them? is it a prank? Is it another demon/spirit taking their form? You can never be too sure so for the love of god just don't. If you do that's none of my business you asked for it and you're gonna be dissappointed, I assume, I've read of someone having gone through the same thing.

 If you do that's none of my business you asked for it and you're gonna be dissappointed, I assume, I've read of someone having gone through the same thing

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not only is it incredibly embarrassing to go on about how one of them is obsessed with you and how they 'cheated on you', but it's also probably going to cause you a bit of trouble.
Either they're gonna be amused you're this delusional, or they're going to be really angry at you for it. Or they can start to ACTUALLY mess with you like how the picture is saying. There's many outcomes and many options.

Just choose to not be delusional. Please. You're most likely going to regret that.

I have absolutely nothing more to say. This was quite a thing to read and write even for me.
Like even for me this was very weird to acknowledge, i got second-hand embarrassment from it, and not to mention how BAFFLED I am to know that there are STILL. STILL SOME PEOPLE ON THIS WORLD. that believe one of them is OBSESSED with them. I thought they were gone but never-fucking-mind..

Anyway.. have a nice day n stay on planet earth <3

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