ok so im gonna talk about the importance of a healthy relationship.
it irks me when a girl or the guy, doesnt feel happy in the relationship, yet they cant put a stop to it. They cant. They cant bc they feel scared of their bf/gf. either bc of blackmail, scared to make them mad or something else.
first off, if you REALLY love the person YOU WOULD FÙCKING LET THEM BE HAPPY. YOU WOULDNT BLACKMAIL THEM OR SAY SKMETHING TO SCARE THEM FROM BREAKING UP WITH YOU. thats downright rude, and cruel. i dont think the person actually loves you if they are scaring you from being happy. staying in an unhealthy relationship ruins yourself, and the other person. the relationship already sunk faster than the titanic so...
SECOND off put your happiness first. just staying in that unhealthy relationship hurts yourself. You shouldnt lose yourself when you are in a relationship. dont be scared to put your happiness first.
THIRD, IT ANNOYS ME HOW DISRESPECFUL PPL CAN BE. THEY THINK THEY CAN SAY SHÎT TO SCARE YOU INTO STAYIG WITH THEM. HOW LOW ARE YOU TO BASICALLY THREATEN SOMEONE INTO STAYING WITH YOU? JUST BC YOU SAY YOU LOVE THE PERSON, IF YOU THREATEN THEM, YOU CLEARLY DONT LOVE THEM. YOU'RE JUST THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF. SINCE THEY CLEARLY WANNA END THE RELATIONSHIP, THEY ARENT HAPPY. AND BY FORCING THEM INTO STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEY WILL BECOME LESS AND LESS THEMSELVES AND UNHAPPY. You basically are ruining and driving a person into the ground. by being forced into it the feelings probably start to become fake.
just say it. tell them about how you truly feel. do it. dont give a shít about what they say. worry about yourself, your happiness, your health, everything. and yes, they'll give you shit but it's worth being free without harm and be truly happy. dont look back at the relationship, because it just wasnt right, look forward at all the happiness you have ahead of you without that jerk.
much love,
squid
