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Hope :) (Please Read)

Hey guys! Thanks for keeping up haha.

I know anxiety, depression, break ups, and so many hard things are going on in our lives. I don't want to be someone who only cares about the superficial things like beauty and fashion, I understand that there are so many other things that are a lot more important. They get in the way of making us feel beautiful, feel happy. I want you to have hope no matter what.

Maybe you're being bullied, you're family's falling apart, you just broke up with someone, you're struggling with depression, you don't want to exist anymore, I don't know. You might want to ignore everything and drift off from the world and all your problems. Being sad is so bad especially when you don't even know why and you get so confused when time is passing too slow, too fast.

A lot of the time, no one seems to notice that you are afraid, shattering underneath your smile, sometimes not even your best friend that you thought could sense everything knows what's wrong. I understand that too. Do you ever feel like you're so lost in your own mind, and no one seems to care? There is someone who does care about you. Even when you can't identify them yourself, that's okay. I'll be here. Talk to me because I care, a lot. Please..no matter what you're struggling with, no matter what you have to wake up and face everyday, you can't give up. There are so many people out there who have gone through the same thing as you, and it is so hard. So hard. But pull through it, because I know there is still hope on the other side. It may take a while but we need to persevere. I know this, it's true. 

Now you think your "solution" could be pills, illegal things, killing yourself. I'm not here to tell you what's wrong, you already know that, right? I'll tell you that the solution is finding something that does make you happy. Help others maybe, or volunteer at a pet shelter, but just find something that means a lot to you and pursue it. A lot of things may bring sadness all the way down to your soul, where you might feel dark and empty, but you can fill it up. 

To all the people that are struggling right now, wondering what life would be with out them, or wondering if they're loved. Without you the world would not be the same, it doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, how you act. You may not know it but you mean something to someone and you will never know if you commit suicide or push them away. There are 7 billion people on this planet, and every single one of them has a flaw. Nobody is perfect, take me for example. I get F's, I feel alone, and sometimes I want to collapse onto the ground to sleep for a hundred years and forget about everything. That's not possible though. But every morning I wake up and tell myself that today is a new day, a day with endless possibilities. And that gives me something that everyone cherishes, it brings me hope. It can bring anyone hope, and if you hold on to hope one day all those thoughts of a better life will become a reality. And if you aren't going through any of this but know a friend who is, talk to them, be with them.

You don't know me, and I don't know you but trust me because it's worth it. You're worth it. I want to help people when they're sad and alone. What's a human if we ignore our own kind? Your dreams are never too big, never too small. Hold on, pain does end. 

I hope so so much that I helped you, maybe even in the slightest way. It'll make me happy. If you liked this chapter, feel free to go back and read my confidence chapter if you haven't already.

Comment anything you'd like below, and thank you for reading :) I love you so much and I want to give you a BIIIIIGGGG hug. 

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