Alright guys I'm just going to be very real with you. If I EVER offer my help, you have two options.
1) show me you are capable of helping yourself
2)accept my fucking help
3) there is no other option and you shouldn't think of another.
I don't offer my help to everyone. If I do it is because it is either way too easy to help you with whatever the problem is, or I sincerely care enough to help you. The worst possible thing you could do is stay in your problems as they only get worse. It makes it worse for everyone you know?
It hurts you because nothing is getting better, it hurts the people around you who can't help you, and it hurts me knowing I can do SOMETHING but you won't accept it. It tears my heart out to see someone I care about in trouble and denying my help that could easily solve the problem.
It's just one push and all your problems will fade. Don't let something block you from being able to get help. Get to a better position in life. Make life better. Life isn't hell, life is to be enjoyed.
If you don't enjoy life, make a better living.
