To her side of the family,
You don't know a very big part of me because you're too close minded. You'd probably disown me like you did with K because he is gay too. Yes. Too.
You guys call me gay because I like reading books instead of playing video games. You call me gay because I like watching anime and cliché movies. You call me gay because I cut my hair. But you see, the only reason I am gay is because I like girls.
You talk down to people like me and I find it quite funny when you guys would rather do drugs or go to the club instead of taking care of your own kids. Maybe you should reevaluate your life before you start bashing somebody else's.
I don't understand why you think it's alright to disown K just because he's gay. I mean, would you disown a family member because they're left handed? Or because they have straight hair instead of curly? Or because they happen to be short while all of us are rather tall?
It doesn't make sense to me. Now you don't get to have a relationship with K or his family because you're too close minded and can't get over the fact that he just happened to fall in love with another man instead of a woman.
Maybe K, his significant other, me and my significant other will all have fake weddings where it looks like I would marry his significant other while he marries mine but we stop it and swap to our true loves and get married. That sounds like a grand old time.
But on a rather serious note, I do not want you to meet my significant other if you do not accept it or begin throwing hate towards us. I don't need your negativity in my life nor will I tolerate it.
If you wish to disown me too because I happily live a life you do not accept, then I will leave and you will be missing out.
At the moment, I am not coming out to you guys. I am working on accepting myself fully and loving myself and I can't do that if my life is full of negative people. For now, you'll be left in the dark when it comes to my relationships.
So to her side of the family... You are and will be in the dark about who I'm interested in or who I'm dating until I'm ready for you to know otherwise. Maybe then you'll have your heads out of your asses and realize it's childish to stop loving somebody because of something out of their control.